re: **OFFICIAL Hopeful Mamas** (pg or TTC after m/c)

I am here!!! I conceived march 9th, lost the baby march 30th of 2009, I was only 5w1d, but we were still devistated! We are tetsing june 19th, but u knew that!! Lol.

Quoting ecandigirlx:“ I am here!!! I conceived march 9th, lost the baby march 30th of 2009, I was only 5w1d, but we were still devistated! We are tetsing june 19th, but u knew that!! Lol.”

ok .. I'll add you and then I gotta go for a few hours (going to watch Slumdog Millionaire.)

Quoting dream:“ ok .. I'll add you and then I gotta go for a few hours (going to watch Slumdog Millionaire.)”

Love that movie!!!!

Woot! I'm here!

I've had 3 m/c, Feb. 04(4 wks), Jan 4,08(7w5d ectopic)and Feb. 22, 09(4wks). Not sure when I'll be testing though.

I've decided to test on the 20th, but will probably test b4 then  


 

Quoting LeighGurl23:“ I've decided to test on the 20th, but will probably test b4 then    ”

Lol.. I am prob with u on that!

Oooh me! I had my m/c April 9th - had a wonky cycle and now I'm 5dpo today!
I'm so nervous it will happen again. Worst feeling.

Quoting *EricaStar*:“ Oooh me! I had my m/c April 9th - had a wonky cycle and now I'm 5dpo today! I'm so nervous it will happen again. Worst feeling.”

That is how i was at first.. and every mc i have feels like i am losing the baby all over again bc they are so heavy n the cramps are horrendous!

Dream -
I'm totally confused - how can you have a due date of Feb 25th already?
If indeed I am preggo my due date would be Feb 10th... and I'm 5DPO today...How on earth did you get a BFP?!

Quoting ecandigirlx:“ That is how i was at first.. and every mc i have feels like i am losing the baby all over again bc they are so heavy n the cramps are horrendous!”

I went with a natrual m/c - and decided against a D&C. Part of me feels as though it was a huge mistake - I saw things I really wish that I hadn't, and bled for so long and was in a lot of paint, but I'm thankful that it's past me. I'm hoping that something was just wrong with the pregnancy, not me and that I will go on to have a healthy pregnancy and baby... but it's so scary! What if it is me and I keep losing babies... I can't go through that, it's too much.

Quoting *EricaStar*:“ Dream - I'm totally confused - how can you have a due date of Feb 25th already? If indeed I am preggo my due date would be Feb 10th... and I'm 5DPO today...How on earth did you get a BFP?!”

That date is if she's gets her BFP this cycle.

Quoting *EricaStar*:“ I went with a natrual m/c - and decided against a D&C. Part of me feels as though it was a huge ... [snip!] ... pregnancy and baby... but it's so scary! What if it is me and I keep losing babies... I can't go through that, it's too much.”

I feel the exact same way, I've lost 3. I don't think I can handle losing another one.

Quoting LeighGurl23:“ That date is if she's gets her BFP this cycle.”

Oh. Well... hmmm.

Hey ladies, just wanted to wish you the best of luck as you TTC and/or proceed through pregnancy after a loss. Lots of baby and sticky dust to you!

Quoting LeighGurl23:“ I feel the exact same way, I've lost 3. I don't think I can handle losing another one.”

Oh man, three!? Wow, you are stronger than I.

I have to keep reminding myself that 50 years ago, women didn't even know they were pregnant this early - I'm just staying positive. But sometimes I catch myself thinking very negatively.