Quoting SuperOvulator;♥ ;]:" So....how do you tell your BD that you're seeing someone new? BD's not exactly in the "co-parent" mode ... [snip!] ... new, but I feel that I SHOULD, just because, I'm pretty happy with this guy, and I hate the fact that I have to hide it."Has the new guy met your children? If it is serious enough that he has met your children, then that is probably a good time to tell him.
Quoting Miss Brittany:" Has the new guy met your children? If it is serious enough that he has met your children, then that is probably a good time to tell him."
Quoting SuperOvulator;♥ ;]:" Yeah, he has. And BD's in his "I don't want anyone around my children" mode, but yet, he's not even around "
Quoting Miss Brittany:" Ah I see. My son's dad isn't really around either. After my bf met my son, I casually mentioned him when BD and I were talking."
Quoting Jillian Lindsey:" <blockquote><b>Quoting SuperOvulator;♥ ;]:</b>" So....how do you tell your BD ... [snip!] ... I hate the fact that I have to hide it."</blockquote> I wouldnt hide it but i also wouldnt sit him down and tell him"
Quoting -Not Alone-:" Hi Ladies!! My name is Nancy, and I'm new to this site. I'm a singe mother of a 5 year old boy, and ... [snip!] ... (other than go to court, that's in the process) Any tips on how to cope with having 2 kids, but not able to see one? Thanks!"Welcome...
Quoting mommyofaprince12:" Hey ladies I'm a separated mommy of a 4 month old. There is a lot going on between us but will be divorced soon thankfully. I'm glad to have a group that I can talk to... "
Quoting Lalaj:" Welcome... How often do u get to see ur daughter? Why wouldn't he give her back to u once u said u ... [snip!] ... To keep the courts out of it kind of seems impossible if u two have already made an agreement that he hasn't followed through."I'm not entirely sure why he won't let me see her, it may be in part that he has a bit of a control issue, and he can still control that aspect of his life is he has her. And I think another part is that he thinks that I'm still in the same lifestyle i was 2 years ago. My life has turned a 180, and I'm doing better than ever before, but he refuses to see that. I have nothing to be depressed about anymore, except that I have no involvement in my daughters life. It really gets to me sometimes. But I know that I just have to keep on truckin! God has a plan for me, and He will let me know when it's time for me to have my daughter back