Quoting Leigha Jai:" see i told him if he don't step up that wyatte wont have his last name, and he didnt step up at all, ... [snip!] ... he is born, my mom said she will make sure of that, but ....ugh its just all confusing. i just really dont know what to do"
Quoting Kahleesi:" So my daughter's dad is like a post-whore on Facebook right now.. because, I'm guessing, he went to court ... [snip!] ... was at work." Or, "Nana Jo put me to bed, Daddy was at home." Unfortunately, I can't confirm anything. I'm just suspicious."
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" So she goes to her grandparents house and he supposedly comes over and spends time with her?"
Quoting Kahleesi:" Yeah, she goes to her great-grandma's house, and her dad goes over to visit. His house (that he shares with his dad) is completely disgusting. I wouldn't want him to take her there."
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Well thank God for his grandparents then. And have you outright asked her after a weekend there, "Did you see daddy?" or "Did you play with daddy?" That might more directly answer your question."
Quoting Kahleesi:" Yeah, I just ask her what she did and if she had fun. And yeah, if she saw her dad at all."
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" And what does she say?"
Quoting Kahleesi:" She tells me what she did.. eat, play, go to church.. the stuff I know she does. And usually her dad is there, it's just his dad and grandma take care of her. "
Quoting Kahleesi:" My daughter's dad his visitations with both of his kids today (ours, and his with another woman) Our ... [snip!] ... time with his other kid, when ours hadn't seen him in like... a month..? Blah. I'm so mad.. I don't think I'm making sense."
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" No, that makes sense. And unfortunately, you can't control who he brings around your daughter unless ... [snip!] ... of people that they might get attached to or "siblings" that aren't in their lives constantly. It just confuses the child."
Quoting Kahleesi:" Like.. I have no objections to the girls meeting. I just wanted it to be their decision. I might be ... [snip!] ... it. It just makes me mad, mostly because he just sprung this up on me last minute and didn't even ask me how I felt about it."