re: Single moms and moms to be Group BOSM

Quoting Rollie Pollie Ollie:“ what a douche i would be so pissed!”

I was so happy that my son was healthy and cute that he could have wrote down Hubba Bubba and I wouldn't have cared.  

Quoting hechola69 {30+}:“ Aww thanks! Your little guy is cute too. He really looks like you.”

awe thank you!! thank god he looks like me!! the only thing that reminds me of his sperm donor is his ears but the rest is his mommy!!

Quoting hechola69 {30+}:“ Would any of you ladies be interested if I attempted to start up a single mommy "club" on here? I have ... [snip!] ... month old little boy named Kyle is my everything. I love him to pieces and enjoy the fact that I can have him all to myself  ”

ohh a "club". that'd be neat. make single mommas feel important.. cause sometimes society frows on us..

Quoting hechola69 {30+}:“ Would any of you ladies be interested if I attempted to start up a single mommy "club" on here? I have ... [snip!] ... month old little boy named Kyle is my everything. I love him to pieces and enjoy the fact that I can have him all to myself  ”

I would join a single moms club!I feel like a black sheep around my married friends so I understand that feeling.

Quoting wickedfantasyyy:“ ohh a "club". that'd be neat. make single mommas feel important.. cause sometimes society frows on us..”

that is so true.

Quoting Jessica *hayley's mommy*:“ that is so true.”

have you ever noticed how when a guys single and raising a kid its like he's super dad, but when we do it immediatly we're like, trashy hoes? hahah. atleast thats how it is around here, not so much in the younger crowd, but those ones like, 50+ always are shooting comments and evil stares.

Quoting wickedfantasyyy:“ have you ever noticed how when a guys single and raising a kid its like he's super dad, but when we ... [snip!] ... how it is around here, not so much in the younger crowd, but those ones like, 50+ always are shooting comments and evil stares.”

No shit. That pisses me off! Those old fashioned hags don't know how hard it is to work and raise a child. Most of them were SAHMs when they had children. My own grandparents have made snotty comments.

Quoting wickedfantasyyy:“ have you ever noticed how when a guys single and raising a kid its like he's super dad, but when we ... [snip!] ... how it is around here, not so much in the younger crowd, but those ones like, 50+ always are shooting comments and evil stares.”

It bothers me that people assume the worse when your a single mom. I've gotten some snotty comments on here from people telling me it's my fault for picking a deadbeat guy. This all came just from me saying I was a single mom and nothing else. They didn't know my situation or anything and just assumed the worse.

Quoting Jessica *hayley's mommy*:“ It bothers me that people assume the worse when your a single mom. I've gotten some snotty comments ... [snip!] ... just from me saying I was a single mom and nothing else. They didn't know my situation or anything and just assumed the worse.”

i didn't realize my bd was a dead beat until half way threw my pregnancy! then sometimes he'd prove himself otherwise and id give him another chance.. but i was already so sick of him, him leaving was a relief.. he never even took the time to meet his daughter.. i don't even think he knows her name!

funnier thing is he thinks he left me 12 days ago, when my daughter was 2 days old.. when i ended it three months ago, when he dropped me off at home, and i never saw him again after that!


so whos fault is it that im a single mom? his.
whos proud to be a single mom? me.


people need to realize its not us thats the problem.

Quoting hechola69 {30+}:“ I am officially calling this the Single Mommy Club! Tell all your single mommy friends to stop by and introduce themselves. We strong women need to stick together.  ”

hell yeah.  

Quoting wickedfantasyyy:“ i didn't realize my bd was a dead beat until half way threw my pregnancy! then sometimes he'd prove ... [snip!] ... is it that im a single mom? his. whos proud to be a single mom? me. people need to realize its not us thats the problem.”

SO true.. it is NOT us thats the problem its them. I don't see why people expect us to stay with shitty guys just to avoid the stigma associated with being a single mom. So annoying

Quoting wickedfantasyyy:“ i didn't realize my bd was a dead beat until half way threw my pregnancy! then sometimes he'd prove ... [snip!] ... is it that im a single mom? his. whos proud to be a single mom? me. people need to realize its not us thats the problem.”

I didn't realize it till I told him I was pregnant and he said it wasn't his and he wanted me to get rid of it. We didn't talk after that till I was 5 months pregnant. My daughter will be 8 months on Sunday and he has seen her once for 15 minutes. I'm proud to be a single mom I know that my daughter is better off for it! Plus it's nice to have all her hugs to myself!  

Quoting hechola69 {30+}:“ I am officially calling this the Single Mommy Club! Tell all your single mommy friends to stop by and introduce themselves. We strong women need to stick together.  ”

Yes we do!!  

Quoting Jessica *hayley's mommy*:“ I didn't realize it till I told him I was pregnant and he said it wasn't his and he wanted me to get ... [snip!] ... I'm proud to be a single mom I know that my daughter is better off for it! Plus it's nice to have all her hugs to myself!  ”

what i still cant figure out, is my bd TRIED to get me pregnant, SUCCEDED on getting me pregnant, wants nothing to do with me or the baby, and is now dating someone 13 years older than me, divorced with 4 kids. i mean, cmon. what does she have i dont? oh yeah, a wrecked vagina.   men make no sense to me. only thing theyre good for is what our kids can't give us, and normally we can give it to ourselves betther than they can anyways. hahahahah.