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posted 12th May '09
Quoting Belle'sMommaEBFB:“ my brother didnt like to try new foods and would rather starve than eat it, he acts very intitled to ... [snip!] ... video games, still a virgin, has no desire to get a job and move out and expects my parents to take care of everything forhim”

it is very frustrating cuz at the time of his childhood, that was when it was all becoming a issue in society and ppl didnt know how to handle it or even diagnose it correctly. He was bullied, picked on by peers AND teachers, and went thru hell as a child. BUT he was also excused due to his disorder and had alot on pity from my family and i think that is why he feels so intitled to things
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I'm due May 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in California
posted 12th May '09
Quoting mom of three kiddos!:“ My son is 5 and we are having him tested cause for one he wasnt hardly speakin by 2 and as he got older ... [snip!] ... and brushed it off at that so im having him tested on fri by an outside source to see what they have to say about it.”

Jeremy also had the eye contact issue. He still will not look at you when you are speaking to him. His speech is so hard to understand. From what I understand, OCD tendencies are very common with Asperbers.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Jersey
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Karah♡BMH:“ Jeremy is the same way, he'll starve before he'll eat something he doesnt like. Hes thrown up over smelling salad.”

i know, as his older sister it made me furious cuz i thought that he was just being a brat. its hard to understand someone who is so picky.
my nephew shows signs of aspergers and my SIL is so mean to him! she is so pushy and expects WAY TOO MUCH from him. its sad cuz he is her step son. her real son was diagnosed as autistic and she is way more sympathetic towards him
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I'm due May 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in California
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Karah♡BMH:“ Jeremy also had the eye contact issue. He still will not look at you when you are speaking to him. His ... [snip!] ... speaking to him. His speech is so hard to understand. From what I understand, OCD tendencies are very common with Asperbers.”

my bro has OCD tendencies. he also has a hard time looking ppl in the eyes. he is really not good at showing affection and admitting he has any type of feeling
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I'm due May 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in California
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Belle'sMommaEBFB:“ it is very frustrating cuz at the time of his childhood, that was when it was all becoming a issue in ... [snip!] ... was also excused due to his disorder and had alot on pity from my family and i think that is why he feels so intitled to things”

Jeremy has a lot of issues with children in his school. They make fun of him because he "acts like a baby" and we actually had him switched from his classroom because his teacher would make horrible comments to him. He would come home crying because he would tell us that she would get mad and tell him she needs a vacation from him... He eats alone a lot and kids mess with him constantly.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Jersey
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Karah♡BMH:“ Jeremy has a lot of issues with children in his school. They make fun of him because he "acts like a ... [snip!] ... us that she would get mad and tell him she needs a vacation from him... He eats alone a lot and kids mess with him constantly.”

my bro bounced from teacher to teacher due to their inability to show compassion towards him. My bro was in a foods class with 2 of my best friends and they told me how he was insistent that HE made the french toast and then when it was done he didnt want any! lol, aspergers at its finest!!
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I'm due May 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in California
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Karah♡BMH:“ Jeremy also had the eye contact issue. He still will not look at you when you are speaking to him. His ... [snip!] ... speaking to him. His speech is so hard to understand. From what I understand, OCD tendencies are very common with Asperbers.”

Yeah we have trouble so much so with his speech that he mummbles and its hard for others to understand him. he is just now speakin in 3 and 4 word sentacnces. And i could see OCD in him cause that child can NOT have his hands dirty i remeber on his first bday he wouldnt eat the cake till i removed the icing he just didnt like it on his hands.
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I have 3 kids & live in Texas
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Belle'sMommaEBFB:“ my bro bounced from teacher to teacher due to their inability to show compassion towards him. My bro ... [snip!] ... how he was insistent that HE made the french toast and then when it was done he didnt want any! lol, aspergers at its finest!!”

It really worries me because Ive noticed that families with more than one child, there are multiple cases of Aspergers and autism. They dont know if its hereditary, but it seems to be. My SO says that every problem Jeremy has, he remembers having as a youth, but at that time, Autism wasnt really a big thing and they werent so quick to diagnose.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Jersey
posted 12th May '09
Quoting mom of three kiddos!:“ Yeah we have trouble so much so with his speech that he mummbles and its hard for others to understand ... [snip!] ... hands dirty i remeber on his first bday he wouldnt eat the cake till i removed the icing he just didnt like it on his hands.”

Yeah Jeremy is like that with dirt. Wont go on the beach because of sand... I picked him up from school and he came out with a plant for Mothers Day. He wouldnt even carry it by the pot because there was dirt inside.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Jersey
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Karah♡BMH:“ It really worries me because Ive noticed that families with more than one child, there are multiple ... [snip!] ... has, he remembers having as a youth, but at that time, Autism wasnt really a big thing and they werent so quick to diagnose.”
yeah, if i have a boy i wont vaccinate just cuz my bro. im paranoid completely
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I'm due May 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in California
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Karah♡BMH:“ Yeah Jeremy is like that with dirt. Wont go on the beach because of sand... I picked him up from school ... [snip!] ... up from school and he came out with a plant for Mothers Day. He wouldnt even carry it by the pot because there was dirt inside.”
Yeah someitmes i wish that maybe we should have caught it sooner we could have done something for him. But he was my first child i didnt know what to look for now i worry about it in my youngest but he is doing good so far i even went so far to have him checked out by BACH and he was right where he should be other than his weight. Idk i just wonder if maybe it was something i did or something me or DH passed on to him.
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I have 3 kids & live in Texas
posted 12th May '09
Quoting mom of three kiddos!:“ Yeah someitmes i wish that maybe we should have caught it sooner we could have done something for him. ... [snip!] ... he should be other than his weight. Idk i just wonder if maybe it was something i did or something me or DH passed on to him.”

I dont believe you can do anything to cause it, but I understand there always being that thought. Jeremy is on medication and it doesnt seem to be working. That tough on him as well. He doesnt know that theres something wrong with him, but he knows he does not like to take it... We're trying everything and still running into road blocks.  
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Jersey
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Karah♡BMH:“ I dont believe you can do anything to cause it, but I understand there always being that thought. Jeremy ... [snip!] ... wrong with him, but he knows he does not like to take it... We're trying everything and still running into road blocks.  ”
just steer clear of Adderal. my bro was on it and it was horrible for him! he couldnt sleep and he started to become paranoid
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I'm due May 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in California
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Belle'sMommaEBFB:“ just steer clear of Adderal. my bro was on it and it was horrible for him! he couldnt sleep and he started to become paranoid”

That was one of the options. It sucks because we dont have total control of the situation. His mother will do anything to make him "not act like a little smurf". She even double doses him to take him out. He is only suppose to take it for school. No weekends, no summer, but she has already threaten us that shes going to medicate him over the summer.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in New Jersey
posted 12th May '09
Quoting Karah♡BMH:“ That was one of the options. It sucks because we dont have total control of the situation. His mother ... [snip!] ... to take it for school. No weekends, no summer, but she has already threaten us that shes going to medicate him over the summer.”

thats terrible! what an awful mother!
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I'm due May 26th (a girl), have 1 child & live in California
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