re: Implantation Bleeding???

Quoting misstiffany:“ you typically ovulate about 2 weeks before your period is due (that's when you concieve) but everyone's different.. I would just wait it out... keep us updated though!”

Thanks for you help girl... I will update this post when I know! or to just cry and vent and cry some more...

Okay.. so wait.. if my last period was the week after Easter..... then when would I have ovulated?

Quoting Dixee's Personal Assistan:“ Thanks for you help girl... I will update this post when I know! or to just cry and vent and cry some more...”

that's fair haha and no problem

Quoting Dixee's Personal Assistan:“ How long after the alleged unprotected sex does implantation bleeding occur? How many days?”

From what I just read, it's about a week...but my MIL works at an ob/gyn office and I'm calling her right now to ask her Dr

Go here in the meantime
http://babymed.com/FAQ/Content.aspx?13394

OMG Cindy.... if it is SHOOT ME NOW!   

Uh oh sweetie....it's very possible  
Although the average is one week, technically it can happen anytime from the day after unprotected sex, up to 12 later

Quoting Missing my Lanie:“ Uh oh sweetie....it's very possible   Although the average is one week, technically it can happen anytime from the day after unprotected sex, up to 12 later”

I can't do this..... I just can't. I'll be soooo far into morbid obesity I'll never reture, my uterus will burst I'm sure since my incision was so hard to get healed up, it's only been sealed 3 months..... we can't afford it, and Sean might be getting kicked out, we might be getting a divorce, I can't do it.. what am I going to do?? 

Quoting Dixee's Personal Assistan:“ OMG Cindy.... if it is SHOOT ME NOW!   ”

Calm down though! There is good news. Because you're breastfeeding and your periods have been irregular, your ovulation can be irregular too. So that does decrease the odds

Quoting Missing my Lanie:“ Calm down though! There is good news. Because you're breastfeeding and your periods have been irregular, your ovulation can be irregular too. So that does decrease the odds”

I'm not breastfeeding love.... but I've only had 3 periods over the last 6 months... Shit.

Quoting Dixee's Personal Assistan:“ I can't do this..... I just can't. I'll be soooo far into morbid obesity I'll never reture, my uterus ... [snip!] ... afford it, and Sean might be getting kicked out, we might be getting a divorce, I can't do it.. what am I going to do?? ”

First of all, we'll pray really hard that you're not pregnant. But IF you are, you can handle it! You're a smart, tough, beautiful woman and all of the problems you mentioned can be overcome. Your weight..is not as big of an issue as you think, I promise. In fact, if you are pregnant maybe it can be the extra motivation you'll need to watch your weight more carefully. Women get pregnant when they're overweight all of the time and can have perfectly healthy pregnancies while watching they're weight. In fact, it's feasible to NOT gain additional weight. I'll help you through it if it comes to that, okay?
As for your uterus...again, lots of women get pregnant even sooner than this and make it through okay.
As for money...well, nobody can really afford to have a baby these days, but you'll manage somehow....we all do.
As for Sean...well, this might be the "make it or break it" factor. Maybe he'll surprise you. If you are pregnant, it took BOTH of you to make it happen.

Quoting Dixee's Personal Assistan:“ I'm not breastfeeding love.... but I've only had 3 periods over the last 6 months... Shit.”

That's right...I knew that, but you did BF for awhile and that can throw your cycle off for some time

Quoting Missing my Lanie:“ First of all, we'll pray really hard that you're not pregnant. But IF you are, you can handle it! You're ... [snip!] ... be the "make it or break it" factor. Maybe he'll surprise you. If you are pregnant, it took BOTH of you to make it happen.”

Cindy.. honestly, I want to die if it's true, I know it sounds terrible but I'm not even sure I want anymore, and especially right now.. I LOVE Dixee but I only want her.. I dont know what I'm saying to be honest... I dont know if I want my marriage to be fixed.. and there is more to the story than what I can say here...

Now take a deep breath and calm down. Look at Dixee and remind yourself of a very important point. If the worst case scenario is that you end up with another gorgeous little baby like her...then it's not the end of the world

Quoting Dixee's Personal Assistan:“ Cindy.. honestly, I want to die if it's true, I know it sounds terrible but I'm not even sure I want ... [snip!] ... to be honest... I dont know if I want my marriage to be fixed.. and there is more to the story than what I can say here...”

I can understand feeling that way, really I can. Whatever happens, you'll get through it and I will try to support you in any way that I can. I'm not sure what your views are on this but...you don't have to continue the pregnancy, especially if it's a threat to your health