Quoting Scabie (Leah):“ The only other race I have dated is Hispanic when I was like 16, haha. But no I don't really care, love is love. But I hear black dudes have big shlongs and what girl doesn't want that?”

ME! Big penises scare me...I'll take a good 6-7...anything bigger than that and my vagina is PISSED!

Quoting *M0MMiE T0 TW0*:“ btw, im from a southern family like middle of nowhere GA and different parts of VA”

born and raised in texas..but sorry...that is the lamest excuse for anything lol.."I was raised this way" do you not have a mind of your own? do you just blindly follow things as your told by your family? my mom always told me ever since I was little that she didn;t care who the fuck I dated, as long as he was a good man...

why any parent would tell their child something different is besides me... even my grandma (who didn't even see a black person til her mid 20's lol) knew love was love...

just curious, since this was obviously how you we're raised, are you going to be teaching your child this as well? that only certain colors are appropriate for dating, even if they love them??

Quoting Erica (Jacob's mommy!):“ born and raised in texas..but sorry...that is the lamest excuse for anything lol.."I was raised this ... [snip!] ... you going to be teaching your child this as well? that only certain colors are appropriate for dating, even if they love them??”

you are so right.. i totally agree with you..

I only date black men because they are the only men that are attractive to me. I don't find other races attractive for some reason. Maybe hispanic men. Now, if one day I meet a man from a different race that knocks me off my feet, then I will definitely go for it!!! But I see nothing wrong with dating people from another race. I am a product of a interracial couple,and I wouldn't change that for the world. I dont descrimiate based on color, I think that is silly.

BTW: Mixed babies are the cutest things ever... for the most part. lol

Quoting Teresa Mathieu:“ When I typed it in, Seal and Heidi Klum came up”

haha, Seal is eww, just eww!!! Heidi is pretty though.

Quoting Erica (Jacob's mommy!):“ ME! Big penises scare me...I'll take a good 6-7...anything bigger than that and my vagina is PISSED!”

lol, I agree with you.

Sorry but for people to say they were raised that way , is not a good excuse. You have your own opinions & your own judgement.
My family believes in sticking to your own race , Im the ONLY person in my family who has dated outside their race & for awhile I caught alot of heat from my family about it but they learned to tolerate it and still love me and is still here for me.
Ive never been told a good enough reason as to why people should stick to their own race and until I do get a good reason Im going to stick to my OWN beliefs not the way my family has tried to raise me.
I feel you should see everyoe equally & look past their color.


I don't think interacial babies are the cutest babies in the world b/c Ive seen very cute one race babies but I think its beautiful for two people to put their cultures together to make a baby , they have alot of racial backgrounds to learn from.


My SO is black & philipino and Im caucasion , welsh { from island wales off the UK } & colombian.

Quoting Erica (Jacob's mommy!):“ born and raised in texas..but sorry...that is the lamest excuse for anything lol.."I was raised this ... [snip!] ... you going to be teaching your child this as well? that only certain colors are appropriate for dating, even if they love them??”

agreed  

I think my babies are the cutest in the world!

I'm white and so is my husband, but I think my babies are the cutest cause they are mine.

I will agree with the stereotype that interracial babies are generally cuties.
One of my best friends married a guy from Grenada, she is pearly white he is dark dark chocolate, and their son is one of the cutest kids I've ever seen- maybe its cause of being mixed- or maybe its cause I love him to death.
Personally, I didn't date anyone from another race cause I wasn't interested in anyone from another race, (and I'm married now) however, if I would have fallen in love with someone from another race, I wouldn't have cared about their race.

Quoting cavigu:“ haha, Seal is eww, just eww!!! Heidi is pretty though.”

I just read your response, so true lol

LOL

My husband is white-I'm mixed (black &boricua). I had some issues with my grandma when she found out about my husband. kicked me out of her house because of it and my husband was willing to break off our relationship if it meant me having some family (my parents have disowned me...so i was feeling pretty bad then about the whole thing. feel lonely) to support me. i thought that was so sweet that he loved me enough to give me up if it meant not causing drama. i choose him. i love him way too much. i dont look at race because in the end it doesnt matter. i live in a small town in ga and most of theo dler black folks tell black girls to get a black man because only a black man can really take care of you.

my fucking ass! half the black here are into drugs, lazy, and dont give a shit. talk about some true ass niggas? shit, i dont have time to deal with a man that wants to be lazy. but i see it as-it doesnt matter what race a man is, if he loves you, he is goign to work his ass to take care of his family and love you and be responsible!!! period!!! i love my husband very, very much. not because he's white-but because he makes me feel..even more proud of myself. i lvoe being encouraged by him, and in turn i do the same. its all about love to me.

Quoting Mrs. Rowe:“ LOL My husband is white-I'm mixed (black &boricua). I had some issues with my grandma when she ... [snip!] ... makes me feel..even more proud of myself. i lvoe being encouraged by him, and in turn i do the same. its all about love to me.”

I am happy that you found love and have been able to look past all of the ignorant people of the world. I just wanted to say one thing to you and I am not in anyway trying to start any trouble. Your use of the "N" word is offensive. You look like a strong, beautiful mixed woman. How would u feel if your husband used that word? Again, I am not trying to get u upset. I like that u stood up to your folks. Love does conquer all. Stay strong and represent your African heritage proudly. God bless

Quoting Teresa Mathieu:“ I am happy that you found love and have been able to look past all of the ignorant people of the world. ... [snip!] ... I like that u stood up to your folks. Love does conquer all. Stay strong and represent your African heritage proudly. God bless”

It doesn't bother me anymore that anybody of any race uses the word 'nigga' because the word actually means someone who is ignorant. And that goes for any race in my eyes. Shoot! I haveeven called some white people niggas-simply for the fact that they act lazy and foolish. That is what a 'nigga' is to me-someone who is not responsible and does not care for their life or the people around them. It has nothing to do with being 'black' as most black people like to associate it with. I mean, I understand the history and even the scars behind the word....but as I said, the word means 'ignorant' to me. My husband has never called me that-LOL-and that's because he knows I'm smarter then he is   And hey, I am in no way offended by what you said. I understand it's still bothersome for most black people. But in this town, that is just one way I sum up the way most of the black people act here. And I wish they would shut up and stop complaining about everything and try to do something for themselves. They fought for freedom and they got it. Now all they can do is use black supression as a way to get hand outs or make people for sorry for them. I know it's not all black people....but the ones that do...it's like a thorn in my side and it hurts. But anyway...that's another topic...for another time.  

Quoting Miranda [Proud Mommy!]:“ I was watching somethings about interracial dating and I always notice people on BG saying things about ... [snip!] ... the poll, do you think racism plays a role in it? Do you think self-hating plays a role in refusing to date inside your race?”

Another post about race 
Why does it matter so much to others who people date/marry/sleep with, have babies with    
We are all one human race and can't help who we are attracted to and want to be with!!!
It's 2009 and racism should not exist, but unfortuanetly it does cause people are always bringing it up and continue to segregate!

All my children are biracial and beautiful!!!!
They would be beautiful if they were not biracial 

Quoting DownSouthMamaof3 (BBM):“ Another post about race  Why does it matter so much to others who people date/marry/sleep with, ... [snip!] ... to segregate! All my children are biracial and beautiful!!!! They would be beautiful if they were not biracial ”

 I was just curious.