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1st time testing after miscarriage

posted 28th Apr '09
Okay, so I recently had a miscarriage and my DH and I just started TTC again. I took a POAS this morning and its a BFP.   AF is not even due until Friday! I am going in for blood work this morning to confirm, but I think I'm PREGNANT!!!! 

Now the worrying begins. I have already started to rack up a list of all the the things that I have done this last month that a pregnant person should not do. I don't even know for sure that I am pregnant, and I am already starting to freakout. As soon as I saw the BFP, I began to pray.

Other than prayer, does anyone have any good ideas of how to cope with the anxieties, emotions, and fears associated with pregnancy after miscarriage.

And for those of you still trying, I will continue to pray that your BFP is just around the corner.
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I'm due January 2nd, have 3 angel babies & live in Texas
posted 28th Apr '09
try not to stress out over it. Good luck mama!
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I have 2 kids & live in Lancaster, Pennsylvania
posted 28th Apr '09
There really isn't anything that can help besides not stressing i know it is hard i had 2 m/c before i had my lil man and through the whole pregnancy i was scared about loosing him everytime i went pee i checked the toilet paper. Congrats and good luck.
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Maine
posted 28th Apr '09
yes big big issue... Try NOT TO STRESS OUT...

pray for the best and you will soon get your wish.. just dont stress over it because stress is never good for anyone...

... i will be praying for you as well....

****BFP BABY DUST****
your way!!!

be sure u keep us informed...
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I have 3 kids & live in Houston, Texas
posted 28th Apr '09
I wish I could tell you something other then not stress but that's about all you can do! I hope everything goes smooth! Let us know how your Dr. apt. goes  
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I'm due January 27th (a boy), have 1 child & live in Nampa, Idaho
posted 28th Apr '09
I wish you lots of sticky baby dust! Good luck!
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I live in Florida
posted 28th Apr '09
Don't stress!!!
Good luck sweetie!!
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I'm TTC since January '09 & live in South Carolina
posted 28th Apr '09
Congrats momma *lots and lots of sticky dust*  
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I'm due January 12th (a girl), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Coventry,
posted 28th Apr '09
Congrats!!!!!

That was quick!! I don't get to TTC until my next cycle.

I really, really wish I could tell you something to make you not worry. I don't it sounds stupid, but when you start to worry, just take a minute, breathe as deep as you can and just let it go. It does help. Also, check out yoga. It really is good for release, and relaxation. Look for a prenatal yoga video. There are tons out there! And of course pray, pray, pray! I hope you have plenty of support and DH is good to talk to.

I'll keep you in my prayers for a healthy pregnancy and for peace of mind!

Once again, Congrats!!!!!
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I'm due May 24th, have 3 angel babies & live in Texas
posted 28th Apr '09
Congrats on your pregnancy! And I hope you have a happy and heathy 9 months!! I really dont know any advice to tell you, b/c I actually just found out I am pregnant last week 6 weeks after my m/c! You just have to be calm and believe that everything is going to work out. This time I just feel more calmer and try and just relax in knowing that thing will work out the way they are suppose to.
Wish I could have helped more. What did the dr. say?
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Austin, Texas
posted 28th Apr '09
trust me I know how you feel...I was shaking the day I went in for my u/s. just think positive, i found out a week before AF was due. Good luck and keep us posted
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I have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in Catskill, New York
posted 28th Apr '09
Quoting Michelle Loves Julia:“ trust me I know how you feel...I was shaking the day I went in for my u/s. just think positive, i found out a week before AF was due. Good luck and keep us posted”
How did the first ultrasound go?
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I'm due January 2nd, have 3 angel babies & live in Texas
posted 28th Apr '09
My insurance now requires that they send the blood work to an outside lab , so I won't get any results until tomorrow but I will keep you guys posted
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I'm due January 2nd, have 3 angel babies & live in Texas
posted 29th Apr '09
I got the results back and I AM PREGNANT!!!! 

My HCG is 129 and my progesterone is 20.1!!!! I still have to go back tomorrow (Thurs) for more blood work to make sure that my numbers are going up, but I am officially pregnant!!! 

It does not seem real. Every time I feel myself starting to get excited, I pull back though. I feel safe being low key happy, but not too excited. I guess I am trying to keep from getting too attached. I don't know why I am doing this, because God forbid something happens I will still be devastated.

I am happy and terrified at the same time and prayer is my only comfort. Please keep me and my baby in your prayers and I will let you know Friday what I find out. Thanks
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I'm due January 2nd, have 3 angel babies & live in Texas
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