re: "May" 2009 Regular Mommas

Quoting WhiteNigerian{CMM*BBM}:“ Thanks.. that's only 2 I know there are more ladies”

i wish my boys had the onsies... or at least oli =(

Quoting babyworkman:“ I think I'm headed into a bad night  . My mom watched KElsie while I was at work and she did ok until ... [snip!] ... got her to sleep but she didn't go to bed too happy and I worry that she'll wake up crying alot of the night. Fingers crossed!”

That's not good. Best of luck to you!

Quoting .::courtney::.:“ i wish my boys had the onsies... or at least oli =(”

go by walmart maybe one hey have them on clearance. Although they were only$3 to start with.. Probably just a buck

Quoting babyworkman:“ I think I'm headed into a bad night  . My mom watched KElsie while I was at work and she did ok until ... [snip!] ... got her to sleep but she didn't go to bed too happy and I worry that she'll wake up crying alot of the night. Fingers crossed!”

Oh I hate it when they cry like that, Kai does that to Sean when he is having a bad night  

Well the oven is installed, it's the damaged one, but at least I have an oven!

I had the worst dream the other night, I was pregnant with Kai and Jasmin was just a baby and I broke up with Sean and he was just an arsehole, it was like he was 15 again and on drugs and he was just awful, he was looking at places abroad online and I went to church to this pregnant teens group that I attended with my friend Lucie and I asked to speak to the vicar in the back room because I was so devasated and I went for some fresh air out the back door and saw someone far off in a white shirt carrying suitcases into the boot of a car over the hills and then my friend Jo carrying Jasmin in a car seat. I realised it was Sean and Jo. I run over there as fast as lightening, took my baby back and beat the shit out of my friend who was saying 'She's my baby, you don't deserve her' and I told her she was my baby and she was not Chloe (her daughter who she had lost). And I emptied the boot of the car and walked off with Jasmin and Sean had run off. I woke up in tears and could feel my heart breaking, I was in bits and Sean was trying to comfort me but I was so mad at him from my dream and I didn't want him anywhere near the kids. I had forgiven him by the time he finished work but I was so mad at him before.

And then last night, Jasmin didn't sleep until 10.30 and woke up at 2am, which woke Kai up, so I had to feed him at 2.30am. She was whinging and talking about nothing, she said weird things like 'Mummy feed me' and 'Mummy, got to be quiet' 'Kai' and stuff that was just not things she said and she was acting really weird. She asked for juice and drunk it, but when I was trying to talk her she was just looking straight through me until about the 3rd time I said things and then nodded. I kept asking if she was ok and she said yes but she was just so not herself. I have no idea what happened but she stirred all night. She called Mummy a few times and when I answered, nothing. She is fine today. Kai wouldn't go back to sleep after 6am and after the long night, I was shattered. I napped this morning and now I am going to take a bath, I guarrantee Kai wakes up the minute I get in it!

Quoting Loving You (PSM BASM):“ Well the oven is installed, it's the damaged one, but at least I have an oven! I had the worst dream ... [snip!] ... I was shattered. I napped this morning and now I am going to take a bath, I guarrantee Kai wakes up the minute I get in it!”

YAY for the oven!

And I know what you mean about having dreams so vivid you just wanna hate the person in them when you wake up! Like I had dreams when I was pregnant that Will was cheating on me, or that he would leave me, and I would wake up furious with him, and he had no clue why!

Gemma - I'm sorry you had such a bad dream. I hate when they are like Solace said, so vivid that they seem real. I hate it with a passion. It usually deals with the hubby cheating or leaving me, it's so not nice. The hubby has had a few himself, we feel bad and end up cuddling eventually after we forgive the other for the bad dream. LoL

Andrea - I hope you had a good night. I've been up basically since 4am with my teething little man.

Sarah - I'm going to see if they have that onesie next time I go to walmart.

My aunt passed away this morning. I'm having a tough time, but trying not to cry in front of aiden. He'll cry if he sees me crying and I don't want to do that to him. So, I was crying but trying to smile at him at the same time. It sucks that the hubby is not home until 7pm after I've had a tough night.

Quoting Wendy "Aiden's Mommy":“ Gemma - I'm sorry you had such a bad dream. I hate when they are like Solace said, so vivid that they ... [snip!] ... crying but trying to smile at him at the same time. It sucks that the hubby is not home until 7pm after I've had a tough night.”

I'm sorry about your loss, Wendy...
It's hard not crying in front of the baby...   I hope Aiden decides to give poor mommy a break with all the teething since she is already having a hard day!

Gemma- maybe Jasmin was sleep walking. I used to be really bad about that when I was a kid. I mean I would full on talk to people, take a bath, eat, say really weird things. Sometimes I'd wake up and be all confused but sometimes I wouldn't. At times to this day Braden has to wake me up because I'm doing weird things. Usually it's searching the bed for Kelsie because I thought I lost her or trying to get out of the sheets because I think I'm trapped. Weird I know!

Wendy- I'm so sorry about your aunt and your bad night. I can only imagine how you must feel. I'm really close to some of my aunts  .

I didn't have the beat night either but I kind of expected it after the shots and just everything going in with her right now. She was down by 6:45, up at 9. Down until 10:30 but in and out until 12 ish, then around 1 I gave her more motrin bc she was feeling warm and she and I finally fell asleep around 1:30 (the first time I ever slept in the night). She woke up at 3:30 and went back to sleep until almost 6. You'd think after these way rough nights she'd sleep in or take a long nap. She dud ta

Sorry I'm on my phone typing this...I was saying she did take an hour and a half nap yesterday but she needs to rest. She isn't getting good sleep at all. I thunk she'll start doing better here soon and I got close to 4 hours so that's usually enough to just get by but I want my 8 hours again lol. I just feel so bad, the poor thing has been through a lot lately!

Quoting William+Ziva=My♥'s:“ YAY for the oven! And I know what you mean about having dreams so vivid you just wanna hate the person ... [snip!] ... pregnant that Will was cheating on me, or that he would leave me, and I would wake up furious with him, and he had no clue why!”

Lol I had those too and I would want to just punch Sean in the face. I'd be sitting up staring at him furious and he would be like 'uh-oh what did I do this time'

morning ladies finally a day off!

wendy im so sorry about your loss

andreaim sorry about not getting much sleep

Quoting Wendy "Aiden's Mommy":“ Gemma - I'm sorry you had such a bad dream. I hate when they are like Solace said, so vivid that they ... [snip!] ... crying but trying to smile at him at the same time. It sucks that the hubby is not home until 7pm after I've had a tough night.”

Yeah me too, Sean always dreams I am cheating on him too. When he cheats on me though it is always with a friend and he is always soooo nasty about things, it is horrible

I am sorry for your loss and that you are finding it tough, sometimes it's hard to not show emotion, it would be easier if he was a little older because you could explain that when people go to Heaven, it makes people upset because they loved them but they will feel better soon, I guess you could still tell Aiden that but he wouldn't understand. I hope hubby gets home real soon after 7! If you need me throughout the day, grab me on here or FB x

Quoting babyworkman:“ Gemma- maybe Jasmin was sleep walking. I used to be really bad about that when I was a kid. I mean I ... [snip!] ... and went back to sleep until almost 6. You'd think after these way rough nights she'd sleep in or take a long nap. She dud ta”

Wow was you like eyes open, as if you were awake? I did think about that but she seemed awake just not with it if that makes sense? Sean talks alot when he is half asleep and has no idea and it is always completely random and he gets annoyed with me because I don't understand I just laugh at him now lol

Quoting Loving You (PSM BASM):“ Wow was you like eyes open, as if you were awake? I did think about that but she seemed awake just not ... [snip!] ... no idea and it is always completely random and he gets annoyed with me because I don't understand I just laugh at him now lol”

Yes! I would act like I was awake but I wasn't. I took a bath in the middle of the night once and my mom came in to my room after I was done and asked what I was doing. That's when I woke up and got all confused and was like...I don't know. It's more common for kids to sleep walk/talk but it can still carry into adulthood. It doesn't happen to me often, but I will still do/say odd things.