re: Medical Termination

Quoting *Jarretts mommy!*:“ yeah, I guess everybody has their reasons and all but still IMO a smurffy excuse to do a medical termination, ... [snip!] ... mind made up before she even posted. something like this (the medical termination thing) would be a good D&D topic I think”

It would go to TDC very fast I think.

Quoting ♥Shay♥:“ It would go to TDC very fast I think.”

yeah probably. ok bad idea

JMO i dont think putting her choice on 'blast' was a nice thing to do. she probably changed her mind about the adoption. it would be hard to give your child to ur mil and have the baby call her MOM and see that. eventually would the baby call helen mom? thats disturbing to me. let helen be she made her choice and she is the one who has to live with it. it was HER choice. u dont have to feel bad bec u dont have to live with it. women all over the country are having abortions medical or not...we cannot stop everyone ladies. i wish the best for helen and her family. God bless them

Seriously, why are you still bashing her. She had a choice, she made her choice... end of story.

Who cares if you agree or disagree with it?

Okay... this is REALLY old but wtf???? I just got done going through this entire post... cannot sleep =( ANyway... SHE IS PREGNANT AGAIN.   I most definitely believe in karma and she is not doing so well in that area. How evil and immature are you to abort one child just because it has SN just to turn around and get pregnant months after???? She has to be the most immature, selfish, ungrateful, unworthy, neglectful parent ever. I do not need your opinoins (negative) because I could not care less... I do not know you and you do not know me and thus your opinion means nothing to me!!! Anyway, I just wanted to mention that this is beyond cruel and disgusting.... to continue to breed after selective termination.

Quoting *~*Jessica*~*:“ Okay... this is REALLY old but wtf???? I just got done going through this entire post... cannot sleep ... [snip!] ... Anyway, I just wanted to mention that this is beyond cruel and disgusting.... to continue to breed after selective termination.”

Woah...way to wake the dead...

Quoting JAGER MEISTER.:“ Woah...way to wake the dead... ”

I know am I am soooooo sorry to stir things up again... that's not what I am trying to do. I just went through all the posts and had to say something.  

Quoting *~*Jessica*~*:“ Okay... this is REALLY old but wtf???? I just got done going through this entire post... cannot sleep ... [snip!] ... Anyway, I just wanted to mention that this is beyond cruel and disgusting.... to continue to breed after selective termination.”

I'm late as hell onthis as well, but SMFH that she went & got pregnant again...what if this one has Downs is she just gonna keep aborting until she gets a "normal" baby. Now, granted I just dkipped to the last page after reading about 12 pages, but knowing how effin late she decided to do it & that the baby could've made it. (I was born around there & obviously I made it) It hurts to know how great my life turned out & that baby didn't have a chance.

Quoting » ƒɛʟïsʜa:“ I'm late as hell onthis as well, but SMFH that she went & got pregnant again...what if this one ... [snip!] ... around there & obviously I made it) It hurts to know how great my life turned out & that baby didn't have a chance.”

I know and the worst part is that she had a family that wanted to adopt the baby even with Downs.  

Quoting *~*Jessica*~*:“ I know and the worst part is that she had a family that wanted to adopt the baby even with Downs.  ”

Damn are you serious?! I missed that part...now this really doesn't make any sense to me.  

Quoting » ƒɛʟïsʜa:“ Damn are you serious?! I missed that part...now this really doesn't make any sense to me.  ”

Yes, and that couple is still waiting for a referral. 
Selfish peice of smurf. Hope all is well with your little boy so you don't have to kill another child. My daughter and her daughter were about the same age, makes me sick to think about it.

Quoting Oxy Moron (BBM+MCCF):“ Yes, and that couple is still waiting for a referral.  Selfish peice of smurf. Hope all is well ... [snip!] ... so you don't have to kill another child. My daughter and her daughter were about the same age, makes me sick to think about it.”

This is just wrong in so many ways...  

Quoting Helen (Team Blue):“ I got the amnio done and thats 100%”

my best friend got an amniocentesis, which said her daughter had downs syndrome...the baby was born early(at 29 weeks) and does not have downs syndrome. An amnio is NOT 100%. It doesnt tell you whether or not your child WILL OR WILL NOT have downs, it simply tells you if he/she is at an elevated risk for downs.

wow, im amazed at how selfish the OP is being. im pro choice, but this is just wrong.
i spent 4 years TTC, and with my first pregnancy, the doctor told us that our daughter had renal agenesis, which means her kidneys didnt work, meaning low amniotic fluid, meaning her lungs wouldnt develop right, and that she would die soon after birth. i was given the choice to terminate, but chose not to. I chose to carry my daughter full term, and deliver her naturally, knowing that she would not live, and that i would have to bury her. im now pregnant with a little boy, and even if he had downs, i wouldnt care. when you love your child unconditionally, it doesnt matter if something is wrong with them. i truly beleive there are certain cases where abortion is ok, and understandable. but this is not one of them. at all. this is pure selfishness. how could you kill an innocent child because youre too weak to deal with having a special needs child? how can you live with yourself?
especially knowing there were people who would have been willing to love that little girl, downs or not, more than you ever could, or even claimed to. how could you take that away ? you disgust me, but most of all i feel pity for you, because one day, (if you make it to heaven) your gonna have to answer that little girl when she asks you why you killed her, and why you couldnt love her as much as your other children.