re: ... Please dont judge

Quoting Justina (havin a boy!):“ It was horrible for me, but I kind of pushed it back and that was the wrong thing! It's so great that ... [snip!] ... anymore you can PM me. It's hard on public forums like this cause I have seen no matter what people are going to judge you  ”

yeah I know... thanks.... I cant get on any BC because I bleed constantly on them; and I dont have any insurance right now or else I would get another kind of BC.... I am trying not to hold anything back right now.. because I know when and if I get pregnant again it will just hurt worse

about 6 weeks honey (bleed) pm me.

theres a website. www.passboards.org.

please check it out. It was the only thing that got me through. 4 years ago now.

I know your pain.

Quoting Yvonne [♥]:“ how long did you bleed?”

sorry for the late response. it was probably 2 weekss of HEAVY bleeding and one and a half of light bleeding. but they put me on BC the sunday after i had it done which helped with the bleeding

Quoting livelaughlove09:“ sorry for the late response. it was probably 2 weekss of HEAVY bleeding and one and a half of light bleeding. but they put me on BC the sunday after i had it done which helped with the bleeding”

yeah me too. I would think that the BC would help with the bleeding not make it worse if anything. and OP w/o insurance you should still be able to get the BC from wherever you got the abortion pills. They gave me like 3 months worth I think! They want you to follow up with an OB after that though.

Quoting ma ♥ [[38weeks]]:“ So you planned a baby, then took its life away? What a shame.. Anyways, hope you feel better soon.”

You know,it really pisses me off that Mara set this up as a place where we could talk about our abortion experiences and offer support and a shoulder to cry on and a nonjudgemental space to be real in, and people like you feel it's okay and appropriate to come in and smurf it all up.You want to make it harder for women to be honest here? You want to talk smurf and judge ? Go to the pro-life sanctuary and be my guest.Ands I hope you are never in a position where you have to make this choice.Because it can happen to you!

Quoting thisunrest{IPD}:“ You know,it really pisses me off that Mara set this up as a place where we could talk about our abortion ... [snip!] ... and be my guest.Ands I hope you are never in a position where you have to make this choice.Because it can happen to you! ”

damn that was awesome! Thats very true though. I remember when I went through all this going to the clinic... this church had their youth group out there protesting.. teenage girls with their parents.. and I just wanted to say something so bad. LIke you know a couple of those ten or so girls probably already had sex and they could go through this same thing!! I wanted to tell their parents that

thank u for sharing!! I hope u feel better soon..

God Bless!

I am all about your body your choice but what I dont understand is YOU planned it then the situation changed and then you didnt want it....things and situations change everyday and I just feel like you made a rash decision and then regreted it.I hope you learn that having a baby is a big responsibity and you have to weigh out all the possibilites before you decide on parenthood.But we are all humans,no ones perfect and we all make mistakes...You live and learn! I wish you luck!

Quoting my name is mommy:? I am all about your body your choice but what I dont understand is YOU planned it then the situation ... [snip!] ... you decide on parenthood.But we are all humans,no ones perfect and we all make mistakes...You live and learn! I wish you luck!?

i know how tough it is to raise a child. I was stupid when i said that i wantd to plan it. I was 19 when i had my son and his father and i plannd him. Neither of us would admit it then we would now. Depending on what fam member it is. We were also together for 3 yrs shortly after our son was together. I do have feelings. I am hurting about it. And i did weigh the pros and cons of it with family members.. And i also didnt do it just becus of me. I also did it for my son.

Am I the only one who only bled for like a week and a half?

It was basically just a really heavy period for me  

Quoting Yvonne [♥]:“ 2 weeks ago I went to planned parenthood and got an abortion; not the surgery, but the pill. I know on ... [snip!] ... story if it was his... but it wasnt... If you think what I did was selfish; then please for my sake dont comment please...”

I had the same kind of abortion.
The pill combined with the vaginal suppository.
I think i only bled for maybe two weeks..if that...

Good luck in the future!

Quoting Yvonne [♥]:“ thank you..... I know keep tryin to tell myself that the child would have had a messed up father.”

thats crazy that was pretty much my story. i think it was the best choice for me. this sound crazy but if you have a baby the pain will go away. i think thats why it was not as hard on me i mean i was upset but i didnt dwell on it. i had a baby already and then i had another one after that. just be careful next time. we all make dumb choices when we are caught up in the moment. as for you still having clots that big i would call them you shouldnt have clots that big at this point. you will feel better. promise.

Quoting mommyofangels21:“ thats crazy that was pretty much my story. i think it was the best choice for me. this sound crazy but ... [snip!] ... still having clots that big i would call them you shouldnt have clots that big at this point. you will feel better. promise.”

They stopped pretty much like 2 weeks ago.... I know what your saying about being careful. I wa pretty dumb with that guy... we had unprotected sex the firsttime. .....yehh

I agree....this place was designed for women who went through something, either planned or not, and get some support or a shoulder to cry on...how dare you come into here and say that she is wrong and its disgusting...that is uncalled for and disrespectful!! If you have nothing nice to say, dont say anything at all!!!

Now, honey, I had 2 of them, both surgical, with the same man, and one when we were married... had mine due to severe weight issues, which I had taken care of with gastric bypass...everyone has s termination for thier own reason, and we are nothere to judge...I applaud you for telling your story and seeking support....Im sorry that you went through all of that...