re: Single Mommies who Left their BD
496 postsposted 11th Apr
Quoting It's A Girl!(08.25.09):“ i left my bd because he cared more about partying and his friends then his pregnant girlfriend. and he ... [snip!] ... calls from him all the time. i realized he cares more about everything else before our baby. i guess some just cant mature.”
Yeah he sounds as dumb as my BD.!!
Im Sorry that is dumb.
i changed my number so my ex cant call or text me!!
Seems like all the hot guys are ass holes!!
I have 1 child & live in Peoria, Arizona
4 postsposted 15th Apr
Quoting Addie Kristine:“ = ( yeah my daughters dad is like that. his friends matter WAY more then me n our baby. its ... [snip!] ... will treat you right and love you with all their heart. but will also love ur baby like its his own and be a Perfect daddy”
tell your BD tat good luck trying to take custody a person with a record has no chance taking custody and your the mother you have more of a right to give her your last name and take full custody of her tell that fucker good uck see your ass in court and remind the courts that he was sleeping around while your pregnat and made threats thatll def make him look good!
the best t you and the baby more power to the single momma's out there!
I have 1 child & live in Tennessee
1775 postsposted 15th Apr
My ex cheated on me with a friend, so I left him. We were together for almost 7 years. It was the hardest thing I've had to do, but possibly the best thing I could do for my girl and myself. I don't regret it, in fact it's empowering.
quoteI have 1 child & live in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
1082 postsposted 15th Apr
Damn he sounds likea typical, bottom of the barrel, dead beat dad, scum bag... Im glad you had the sense to leave him because one of my friends are in a situation similar to yours and lets just say she is not as smart as you are about decision making.
Much Love
quoteMuch Love
I have 1 child & live in Huntsville, Alabama
posted 15th Apr
Thank you!!
yeah it is really hard
but it is deffinitly worth it!!
now i have my beautiful daughter and my family!
he was Always trying to pull me away from my family.
i'd WAY rather have my family over him!! haha
quoteyeah it is really hard
but it is deffinitly worth it!!
now i have my beautiful daughter and my family!
he was Always trying to pull me away from my family.
i'd WAY rather have my family over him!! haha
I have 1 child & live in Peoria, Arizona
10 postsposted 22nd Apr
I left my BD, a month before i found out i was pregnant. I didn't find out until i was over 2 months pregnant. He was a peice, and always wanted to go out and party and do pills. And when we met he was never like that, And hes 5 years older than me, thought he'd be the mature one. Ha, I was totally wrong. Now hes in florida and i'm in new hampshire.Sounds like, you did the right thing, by leaving your BD. You'll be an amazing mom!
quoteI have 1 child & live in New Hampshire
posted 26th Apr
Quoting AMANDA! 0809!:“ I left my BD, a month before i found out i was pregnant. I didn't find out until i was over 2 months ... [snip!] ... Now hes in florida and i'm in new hampshire.Sounds like, you did the right thing, by leaving your BD. You'll be an amazing mom!”
Ahhh My BD is 5 1/2 or 6 years older then me!!! I Found out i was pregnant after i moved back to arizona and he was still in montana. so i havent seen him since ive known im pregnant. but thats good you left him!! it will be Alot easier to raise a baby without a dumb guy making it harder and messing around huh!! my mom left my bio dad when i was 3 and my sister was 2 months.!
This lady my mom works with has i think 3 little kids and 2 are twins! and her boyfriend goes out EVERY night and alot of times doesnt even come home. and she has to take care of all her kids by herself all the time plus she works like every morning so she barly gets sleep. and she found out hes been cheating on her he caught him talking on phone to some girl bout how much he loves her and wants to be with her. and so that girl took her bfs phone and was talking to the other girl and she told her they have been messing around for like Over 2 years and he licks her and all this nasty stuff. and that lady was telling my mom all this at work and my mom told her you Need to leave him you know you dont wanna be with him so why are you waiting cuz it will jus be harder if you wait and everything. and they lady was jus all dumb like Its not that easy. and my mom was like How easy is it right now?!! haha. but she was like yeah i guess your right. idk what shes going to end up doing but im So happy i left my babys dad before it got That far.!!
and thanks! you will be an amazing mommy too = )
I have 1 child & live in Peoria, Arizona
80 postsposted 1st Nov
Quoting Tiffany OG 2007:“ I can't say I left my "baby daddy" since that isn't something that I would never say. I left my husband ... [snip!] ... finally just got fed up. I packed everything I could fit into my truck, drove 300 miles away to Georgia and never looked back.”
Oh goodness we need to talk.. your going through the similar situation i am! I have been so upset with myself and confused and angry... I broke up with my BD right after i got pregnant.. and it was because he was completely worthless.. hes 27 and i had to make him get a job. He has so goals for himself and like you said would rather spend his time playing video games. Right after we broke up I found out that he cheated on me with one of my really good friends and needless to say we ARE not friends anymore. But this douch is all up my ass about how hes going to be involved and im not keeping his baby from him and blah blah blah and even tried to tell me that i was not picking out the babys name. I finally told him that he has no say but hes a total ass to me and i can just see all the misery to come my way with him. i have no idea legally what he can do but I am NOT putting his name on the birth certificate! I live in california and i know that I dont have to.. even if i have to claim that im a whore and i dont know who the father is. What makes me sick is hes soooo convinced that i need him.. seriously dude.. im several years younger than you but i am 10 years ahead of you. I have a really supportive family and im just going to be fine with out him.. but its nice to find a post where people are going through similar things!
I'm due March 5th (a boy) & live in Visalia, California
