Quoting ♥ Sharon ♥: And I think you are right. Mothers considering adoption deserve their own forum! They go through a LOT!!
I posted this same thought a little while back and even messaged Mara about it with no response. It seems weird for Adoption to be with TTC. I think she put it more as women TTC or Adopt and wasn't thinking about us birthmoms out there. I gave my first child, a son, up for adoption over 12 years ago. I had been with his father for over two years when I got pregnant, but I knew he wasn't interested in sticking around and even if he did I realized he wasn't a person I wanted to have an influence on my son's life. It was the hardest time in my life and I cried more often than not. I still miss my son so much so times, but I know that both of our lives are better- he has two parents who love each other and him and even a big sister and in less than 6 years he will be old enough for us to meet again.