re: Birth Mom Support Thread

Quoting ♥ashlee♥:“ I have semi open for now....once the babies stop needing to go to the hospital so often and stuff ... [snip!] ... like that we will talk open..but for now just updates and pics 2 times a year. That is awesome about your story of the twins!!”

So are the boys doing well then? I would guess they are..
did they get separated? or are they planning to be?

sorry for so many questions.. i intrigues me how infants can survive so much...



ETA: .I didn't even know about the Twin until AFTER Riley was born and it was finally confirmed jsut 2 months ago.. (he was born in august.. by c-section)

Quoting RileysMommy {JAS08}:“ So are the boys doing well then? I would guess they are.. did they get separated? or are they planning ... [snip!] ... the Twin until AFTER Riley was born and it was finally confirmed jsut 2 months ago.. (he was born in august.. by c-section)”

yeh they were seperated January 15th. All went well and they are doing great. Angel got out of the hospital last week and Alex will hopefully go home soon!

Quoting ♥ashlee♥:“ I have semi open for now....once the babies stop needing to go to the hospital so often and stuff ... [snip!] ... like that we will talk open..but for now just updates and pics 2 times a year. That is awesome about your story of the twins!!”

Ashlee... nice to meet you... I knew of you do to your babies unique situation but didn't realize the adoption... my son is going to be 13 in May... wow but it so helps to have friends like Amanda... she is an angle too... I'm going to PT you to keep in touch... it's good we all have a place to talk...

Quoting //(*¿*)\\ Mamas•happy:“ Ashlee... nice to meet you... I knew of you do to your babies unique situation but didn't realize ... [snip!] ... friends like Amanda... she is an angle too... I'm going to PT you to keep in touch... it's good we all have a place to talk...”

its just hard to talk about sometimes with just anyone... sometimes you need people who have been there

Quoting ♥ashlee♥:“ yeh they were seperated January 15th. All went well and they are doing great. Angel got out of the hospital last week and Alex will hopefully go home soon!”

thats great news!! are they going to the same family..? and how old are they now..?

Quoting Amanda ♥'s Ella:“ its just hard to talk about sometimes with just anyone... sometimes you need people who have been there”

so true... some people can be so judgmental about it... they just don't get it... although I sometime feel that way myself about it... even after all these years...

Quoting Amanda ♥'s Ella:“ lmao we're so in sync”

 xoxoxo

Quoting ♥ashlee♥:“ yeh they were seperated January 15th. All went well and they are doing great. Angel got out of the hospital last week and Alex will hopefully go home soon!”

oh that is good to hear they are doing well and the separation went well and one is home already, I hope Alex can go home soon..

Amanda,
Great idea but I don't feel 'ready' for this step, so to speak. Is that weird?
Ah well. -love you.

Quoting //(*¿*)\\ Mamas•happy:“ thats great news!! are they going to the same family..? and how old are they now..?”

they will be 8 months on the 13th and yep...I wanted them to go to the same family so if they didn't want to take both then it was out of the question.

Quoting .Madden.♥:“ Amanda, Great idea but I don't feel 'ready' for this step, so to speak. Is that weird? Ah well. -love you.”

of course!
we are here if you need us  

Quoting Amanda ♥'s Ella:“ of course! we are here if you need us  ”

i dont know who/what i need right now.

Quoting ♥ashlee♥:“ they will be 8 months on the 13th and yep...I wanted them to go to the same family so if they didn't want to take both then it was out of the question.”

your boys are JAS08 babies.. july/august/september 2008, my thread/group.. that is neat, .. my son is 8 months on the 11th..

Quoting ♥ashlee♥:“ they will be 8 months on the 13th and yep...I wanted them to go to the same family so if they didn't want to take both then it was out of the question.”

well good for you... my baby is 8 months too well on the 16th she will be... I wish you peace with your decision... it wont be easy but if you need to talk I'll be here... only 5 more years till Elliot can seek me out... he'll be 13 May 10th...

Quoting RileysMommy {JAS08}:“ your boys are JAS08 babies.. july/august/september 2008, my thread/group.. that is neat, .. my son is 8 months on the 11th.. ”

ohhhhhh me too!!!