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re: Birth Mom Support Thread

posted 27th Jun '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Just FYI to new girls.. they can close open adoptions.. they arent legally binding. Im currently going through it."


yes i know i have done a ton of research on adoption and have heard horror stories but im staying positive. thats all i can do in my situation. im sorry that they closed it and i hope they realize soon that it would be better in the long run to have you somewhat involved..
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I have 3 kids & live in Dayton, Ohio
posted 28th Jun '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Ikr.. I thught that they wouldnt do that. but I guessed wrong.. I guess after everything was final ... [snip!] ... everything was final and he was their last name.. then everything was fine and didnt need to update me anymore. Thats cool. "
Oh hun I am so sorry.
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I have 2 kids & live in Ocala, Florida
posted 28th Jun '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Thread Killa:</b>" Oh hun I am so sorry. "</blockquote>




its whatever anymore. i have so much ish going on. im not going to worry about it for right now. adrian doesnt care atm so... its fine i guess.
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posted 28th Jun '12
Quoting Thread Killa:" How accepting are adoptive parents of a child that might be special needs, but that will need surgery after birth?? Are there a lot that doesn't want to take on a child with medical issues??"

I believe a quality family would just want to love your child so much they don't really mind issues. LO's adoptive family knew from the start that there was a chance of her having future mental disorder/learning disability and she's recently been diagnosed with SPD and they're perfectly fine with that.
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I have 10 kids & live in Georgia
posted 3rd Jul '12
I'm planning on giving my baby up for adoption. =( I know it'll be hard, but my SO and I think (hope) we can be strong and do it.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 3rd Jul '12
Quoting Katie Marie!:" I'm planning on giving my baby up for adoption. =( I know it'll be hard, but my SO and I think (hope) we can be strong and do it."
When are you due?
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posted 3rd Jul '12
Quoting laxgirl23:" When are you due?"

December 11th.
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I have 1 angel baby & live in Beverly Hills, California
posted 3rd Jul '12

There are adoptive parents who don't care abotu special needs. DH and I never cared. We were open to any type of child no matter their race, medical backgrounds of BPs or medical issues for the baby.

Jamie had clubfeet and is now perfectly fine. And Jackson has many special needs. I don't love them any less and wouldn't love them anymore if they were "perfect".

I think there are people out there willing to do anything to have a family even if that means adopting a child that may have some sort of medical issues. I'm sure there are some that want that "perfect" baby as well...
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I have 2 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 3rd Jul '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" Just FYI to new girls.. they can close open adoptions.. they arent legally binding. Im currently going through it."

I'm so sorry... It's so unfair. I could NEVER do this to my kids' birthparents. I cannot imagine cutting out a part of my kids' life. I hope that they come around and realize what they are doing not only to you, but to their son. I'm sorry.
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I have 2 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 3rd Jul '12
<blockquote><b>Quoting Blessed by Adoption X2:</b>" I'm so sorry... It's so unfair. I could NEVER do this to my kids' birthparents. I cannot imagine cutting ... [snip!] ... of my kids' life. I hope that they come around and realize what they are doing not only to you, but to their son. I'm sorry. "</blockquote>




i miss looked on the profile... they had been updating but it wasnt showing up for me. lol. they have more than made up for it.
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posted 4th Jul '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blessed by Adoption X2:</b>" I'm so sorry... It's so unfair. ... [snip!] ... i miss looked on the profile... they had been updating but it wasnt showing up for me. lol. they have more than made up for it."

So happy for you!!
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I have 2 kids & live in Wisconsin
posted 5th Jul '12
Quoting Yurvon [♥]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blessed by Adoption X2:</b>" I'm so sorry... It's so unfair. ... [snip!] ... i miss looked on the profile... they had been updating but it wasnt showing up for me. lol. they have more than made up for it."

Oh thank goodness! I read the last update on here and it made me sad for you. From what you've said about them, I was surprised that you would be cut off like that.
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I have 10 kids & live in Georgia
posted 6th Jul '12
hey ladies so my csection is the 23rd and im so excited/scared/sad/happy for that day and the days following. i know how amazing those first days usually are and i know this time it wont be the same. i want to have the most enjoyable/memorable experience while in the hospital with baby. i know it is going to be tough, and i was wanting to hear some of you ladies experiences with the hospital and suggestions what you wish you hadn't or had done. its getting more and more real everyday and i feel soo unprepared for the actually handing lil Topper over to this amazing family. To his mommy and daddy. i just want this experience to be as smooth as possible. i know im going to be an emotional reck. and this post may not make sense lol but anything you ladies are willing to share would be great!!
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I have 3 kids & live in Dayton, Ohio
posted 6th Jul '12
Is this a normal feeling?

I had a baby boy April 3 and he's being adopted. .. now everytime I see someone with a baby I get so jealous. And I find myself wanting to have another baby. Im not going to have one. I just want one. I have my daughter she's two and a half but the newborns just get to me n this jealous feeling comes over me. ):
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I'm due April 1st (a boy), have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Bakersfield, California
posted 6th Jul '12
I think that is normal. I feel the same way. And my son that was adopted is 8 months old.
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