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re: Birth Mom Support Thread

posted 5th May '12
Quoting ♥`n my girls:" Thanks hun. I think he's just so ready to replace her and feels like he wants to do it more now  "

I know how he feels. I SO badly want toget pregnant right now so I can enjoy being pregnant and love it like I did adrian instead of being so cold to it like I was with ethan.   I wihs I could tell yo usomething that would make yo ufeel better.  
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posted 8th May '12
So.. as far as I know, Ty's bio dad's family (that's a mouthful) has not seen any pictures of the baby. I kind of want to reach out to them, and ask if they want to see any. But I'm afraid of the rejection. Like... I'm afraid they're gonna be like, "You walked out on him & gave up his baby! Go away!!"
IDK.. I'm just nervous about that.
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I have 1 child & live in Henderson, Texas
posted 16th May '12
Talked with Mary's parents. Things are MUCH better! They kind of laid off because they know how busy DH and I have been and didn't want to bother us (not that they EVER bother us). I'm really happy   Our summer meet up is scheduled for the 4th of July (we'll go down there the 2nd and stay until the 6th). I'm excited to see her!! She'll be just about 10 months old! Last time we saw her, she was 2 months old! Ahhhh!
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Moscow, Russian Federation
posted 16th May '12
Quoting ♥`n my girls:" Talked with Mary's parents. Things are MUCH better! They kind of laid off because they know how busy ... [snip!] ... until the 6th). I'm excited to see her!! She'll be just about 10 months old! Last time we saw her, she was 2 months old! Ahhhh!"

YAY! I havent made a date where Im going to see ethan; because I need a car to drive there. I didnt wanna go wtih the bio dad. And nobody would let me take their car.So I might not see him until hes a year old. But Im fine with that.  
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posted 16th May '12
Quoting Y[♥]:" YAY! I havent made a date where Im going to see ethan; because I need a car to drive there. I didnt ... [snip!] ... wtih the bio dad. And nobody would let me take their car.So I might not see him until hes a year old. But Im fine with that.  "

I think a year old is the perfect time! He may be walking and baby talking more and not just in the boring infant blob stage LOL!
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Moscow, Russian Federation
posted 16th May '12
Quoting ♥`n my girls:" I think a year old is the perfect time! He may be walking and baby talking more and not just in the boring infant blob stage LOL!"

lol. I know right! I really hate when they were the blob stage!!! lol. Im not in a huge rush to visit him.. It will come when it will come lol. Im thankful that his dads are understanding. lol.
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posted 26th May '12
I have a serious question, no bashing please.. i feel like i'm going insane enough as is.
I'm seventeen, and i have an eight month old daughter well i'm 23 weeks pregnant again with another girl and i've named her and stuff, and i have no idea what to do. I know i can't financially support another baby, me and my boyfriend are always arguing... not around my daughter. And i'm also married to this other guy and we're pretty sure he's this babys dad, and we think that his mother once proven it's his is gonna' try to fight for this baby. And i don't have the money for a high priced lawyer and stuff.. and i feel like if i give this baby up for adoption that she'll hate me.. and idk feel like i just didn't want her. And at sometimes i feel so stupid because i mean i was on birth control but it was generic and we didn't use condoms.. i'm dumb. But i need to focus on my life and stuff and my 8 month old is JUST NOW getting to where she's much easier to handle and stuff and now i've got a newborn on the way.. and i try to picture myself in the hospital, after going through that much pain... then just giving her away. I love her already.. and i need some advice. Preferably from moms who have gave their babys up for adoption and have been through it and felt the pain.. thank you.
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I'm due September 22nd (a girl), have 1 child & live in Carrollton, Kentucky
posted 26th May '12
Quoting Heaven Lee;:" I have a serious question, no bashing please.. i feel like i'm going insane enough as is. I'm seventeen, ... [snip!] ... advice. Preferably from moms who have gave their babys up for adoption and have been through it and felt the pain.. thank you."

this is the birth mom thread you will only get the moms that have placed their kid for adoption.

She will not hate you. She will understand. Will it be a open adoption? I would talk with an adoption agency person to see what rights your husband has.
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posted 26th May '12
Quoting Link:" this is the birth mom thread you will only get the moms that have placed their kid for adoption. She ... [snip!] ... will understand. Will it be a open adoption? I would talk with an adoption agency person to see what rights your husband has. "
I honestly feel like she'll just see it as i didn't want her, and i'm afraid i'll hate myself as well.. & he has all rights, he's my husband.. /:
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I'm due September 22nd (a girl), have 1 child & live in Carrollton, Kentucky
posted 26th May '12
Quoting Heaven Lee;:" "




She wont hate you. You arent in the position for another child.. You are thinking of the child. Does your husband want the child??
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posted 26th May '12
Quoting Heaven Lee;:" "



Also... is your husband your other daughters father? You need to talk to an adoption agency to see what you can do.
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posted 31st May '12
No, my other daughter is Not my husbands. And we're not sure this one is his either. Because my dates are sketchy. And he doesn't know. He's in jail right now for threatening to burn down my house so we're making sure he doesn't know.
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I'm due September 22nd (a girl), have 1 child & live in Carrollton, Kentucky
posted 5th Jun '12
So DH and I are going to TTC in 3 years, 2015. We've sat and discussed and discussed some more. I graduate in 2015 and I think that is a really good time. We may even post pone it a year or two because I want to go to law school after I graduate but as of now, 2015 is our set year. This is the longest I've ever gone without being pregnant LOL!! Crazy!! But on another bright note, we are meeting up with Mary's parents in 2, yes 2, weeks in FL! We have our plane tickets set and everything! I'm super excited!! She's gotten soooo big!!
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I have 2 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Moscow, Russian Federation
posted 25th Jun '12
Hi I'm new here. I'm due in less than 2 months and I'm getting anxious about placement. Is anybody else going through this?
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