vent about that boy i call my boyfriend.
posted 1st Apr '09
He gets so aggravating! We moved in together in november, and ever since then he just seems so close. Sure sometimes its amazing, because we don't have parents around - he's always there. But then other times it's just annoying, he never puts the wet towels in the hamper, he just leaves them on the bedroom floor. He never cleans the mustard cap. And he's always leaving toothpaste on the sink. i know these are just rants but it's so annoying. And he always wants to go out; sometimes i just want to stay at home, watch movies and cuddle. Am i going to hard on him?
Sorry if i sound like a bitch, i swear i'm not lol.
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
Get used to it. Boys are gross.
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
you are going too hard on him, hon. it's hard to adjust to living with someone. especially while pregnant, but you're being too rough. calmly explain to him that those things are irritating but i leave towels on the floor all the time. it's not that i don't WANT to remember but that i have more important things going on in my head at the time.
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
They are just small issues. When I moved in with my husband when we were dating there were things that drived me freaking CRAZY!! Never put his clothes in the dirty clothes (left them on the floor) He never folded his clothes, just shoved them in his dresser... left dirty dishes on his nightstand... (EWWWW!!) And always had to take a freaking cold shower! They are things that you will just have to get used to.. Dont be so hard on him.. My hubby does things different now, but it took awhile..
quoteI have 1 child & 3 angel babies & live in
Floridaposted 1st Apr '09
This is why everyone needs to live together before they get married. hahaha
Peter and I have been living together almost a year, and some things still bug me. I've gotten over most of the small stuff, but some stuff just always bugs you.
ETA: Peter still puts his wet towels on my side of the bed.
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
Haha! Just wait until you get married...
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
luckily my boyfriend is a complete NEAT freak and germaphob (sp?)
but i cantttt stand that he is cheap as shit lol
he buys these fishsticks that cost $1.00 for 24 fishsticks...
to me thats gross and id rather spend more money on food lol
all boys do strangeee things.
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
It will take some getting used to. Hubby is all nice and broke in now..but its been 6 years now. It took awhile to get here.
quoteI have 2 kids & live in
Texasposted 1st Apr '09
thats a guy for you lol my bf didnt have a dirty clothes basket, and mever cleaned the bathroom.. egh.. hes better we got a laundry basket and he uses it now, i have to clean the bathroom or is dont get done, the first time was horrid i must say tho! lol just tell him, and keep reminding him w/o being rude "hey, rinse the sink" and stuff like that. theyre almost lik kids u have to keep telling them untill they get it lol
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
well tell him to stop. I mean I would bitch about it to mine, and he just stopped. Now he always likes things clean like me :]
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
Trust me the second you dont have to put up with it, your gonna wish he was there doing all those bad habits....I miss all my hubby's bad habits like that
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
Quoting Soon2bmommy (Shae'):“ well tell him to stop. I mean I would bitch about it to mine, and he just stopped. Now he always likes things clean like me :]”
lol thats how it is for me u gotta break 'em into the clean habit and once they get it theyre yellin at you "the room isnt clean" haha
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
I can understand the wet towels but the toothpaste and mustard cap? Isnt that a bit extreme?
quoteposted 1st Apr '09
Those are just small issuses. Me and my BD lived together and i lot of the shit he did annoyed me. But i got used to it, it doesnt bother me much anymore.
quoteI have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in
Floridaposted 1st Apr '09
Quoting ♥Expecting♥:“ I can understand the wet towels but the toothpaste and mustard cap? Isnt that a bit extreme? ”
I don't know, i'm justa phone about certain things :/
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