*[mini-rant]* TTC a 2010 baby now. =[

So my cycles are ridiculous and I'm starting to feel like I'll never have children.   people keep telling me "it'll happen one day", "just give it time", etc... but it's definitely easier said than done... (especially when I see little 14 year old skanks running around pregnant... I mean honestly, why would they be blessed with a child when My husband and I are ready and waiting for our blessing?)

I realize there are ladies on here that have been TTC for years and I consider them strong women for going through the pain of AF showing up every month for years... I hope I never have to experience that pain.

This month my period was exactly a week late... Just enough suspense to build me up to a big ol' batch of disappointment and tampons.. ha. I'm just hoping that we conceive during the typical "one year" that it takes a typical couple to conceive... which is approaching us fast, we're on month 8 already... Anyways, wish me luck for next month, if we conceive the baby will be due in Jan 2010! ha. That sounds so sad... so far away. I need some baby dust, pronto!

  Good luck mama and lots of baby dust!

Quoting Lauren K is TTC!:“ So my cycles are ridiculous and I'm starting to feel like I'll never have children.   people keep telling ... [snip!] ... month, if we conceive the baby will be due in Jan 2010! ha. That sounds so sad... so far away. I need some baby dust, pronto!”

I wish you the best of luck.
You've probably heard this time and time again but if you don't try (instead just enjoy the love making.. don't think of it as baby making), it usually happens. I definitely wasn't trying to get pregnant when it happened and I know quite a few women with the same scenario.

Quoting Lauren K is TTC!:“ So my cycles are ridiculous and I'm starting to feel like I'll never have children.   people keep telling ... [snip!] ... month, if we conceive the baby will be due in Jan 2010! ha. That sounds so sad... so far away. I need some baby dust, pronto!”

have u tried to get on b/c for a few months to regulate ur cycles i heard lots of ppl do this!!!

I hear ya! I'm fairly new to TTC and already I'm getting discouraged! lol
My sister-in-law is prego w/ her 5th and everyone looks at me and says "when are you going to have one"... and I say well I quit BC in Jan... and then I get the "OH It'll happen when you least expect it", or "just give it some time" 
Then I hear about friends of mine who weren't even TTC and they are pregnant... GRRRR....

so here's to all of us TTC'ers..

Quoting Mom2Lexi&Sir Pukes`A`Lot:“ have u tried to get on b/c for a few months to regulate ur cycles i heard lots of ppl do this!!!”

bc actually messed my hormones alllll up. i started taking it for that reason too...so i'd at least know when to expect af.
i didn't start getting regular until i started smoking marijuana daily, surprisingly. but i wouldn't ever tell someone to do that unless they already smoke. i started smoking it to regulate my moods and anxiety and it regulated my periods too.

Quoting Mom2Lexi&Sir Pukes`A`Lot:“ have u tried to get on b/c for a few months to regulate ur cycles i heard lots of ppl do this!!!”

yeah, i actually was on the b/c pill for 3 months before we started ttc and it didn't regulate my cycles and made me so nauseous I wouldn't eat... So needless to say, I stopped taking it. I was just on the lowest dosage of ortho tri-cyclen and will never use any form of b/c besides condoms again. BLAH, horrible experience.

I know! It makes me sick to see young teens running around flaunting their pregnant bellies. There is a lot of support on this site, and I would love for you to come join us in the TTC Thread. We will be more than happy to help you through it all, all the way up to your BFP!

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about542120.html

Quoting Jessie+James.:“ bc actually messed my hormones alllll up. i started taking it for that reason too...so i'd at least ... [snip!] ... to do that unless they already smoke. i started smoking it to regulate my moods and anxiety and it regulated my periods too.”

Oddly enough, I smoke green as well. haha. =]
Obviously so far it hasn't helped me,
but it does help to keep my calm and relaxed when AF shows.

Quoting {LaCinda Kay}:“ I know! It makes me sick to see young teens running around flaunting their pregnant bellies. There is ... [snip!] ... will be more than happy to help you through it all, all the way up to your BFP! http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about542120.html”

why thank you, I'll go check it out now!

Quoting Lauren K is TTC!:“ why thank you, I'll go check it out now!”

Your welcome! Just make a post, and Ill add you to the list   Good luck!!

im in the same boat as you   i feel like its taking us forever and i never even used b/c i am about 6 days late and i am on 40 day cycles   it makes me wanna curl up in a ball and cry 

**BABY DUST*** my dear!

Quoting Lauren K is TTC!:“ Oddly enough, I smoke green daily as well. haha. =] Obviously so far it hasn't helped me, but it does help to keep my calm and relaxed when AF shows.”

ha what a coincidence! it helps with cramps too.

OT but i just looked down at the floor and there's a little penis-shaped pencil topper just chillin' there. how random.

I have crazy irregular cycles too. My Dr. put me on Clomid. They went from 45+ days to 29! That is the shortest cycle I've ever had! If you have insurance it is very cheap. If you tell your dr. what your cycles are like he might be willing to put you on it since you are irregular.

good luck!