Quoting alaskanmommy:“ Okay, I'm trying to see if my plan makes sense. Sometimes when your in the thick of it with pregnancy ... [snip!] ... infertility and am coming close to the end of my childbearing years that I don't want to risk the baby if I don't have to.”
Oh sweetie I'm sorry to hear that. I have SUA (which often has a 2/3 chance that the baby will have Trisomy 18, 21, ect. and a 1/3 chance of heart conditions) I can relate to your sleepless nights. It consumes your every thought.
It's a tough decision that only you can make. I always said I didn't want the test because it didnt' matter, but I went for it and was glad that I did. I'm not really sure what to say other than, if you ever want to talk feel free to private message me. I hate to ask to many questions as people often don't understand and have a tendency to be rude. I also had a emerg c-secion due to pre-eclampsia - I had HELLP syndrome. Really anytime you need an ear. I'm here for you.