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I think it's ignorance. 

A lot of guys are "homophobes" because they think a gay man wants them. 99% of the time, they don't. If a gay man knows you're straight, he knows you don't want him, and he won't pursue anything. 

That's what my friend told me. He's gay.

YES my uncle he is gay the whole family knows it hes such a Phob it makes me sick when i came out about being bi he opened a lil but hes still very harsh guess its how he deals with it

My dh is homophobic, but only with gay males. Not gay females. It has alot to do with what his biological father did to him when he was younger though.

So in some cases, they are just ignorant, but in other cases there is a reason for the homophobia

I knew a dude in high school that was always like EWWW, FAGGOT! and claimed to be the most right-wing of Republicans, super-anti-gay marriage... And then one day when we were ditching school, told me about him and another guy from our theater class had sex.

I don't see how anyone could be "afraid" of homosexuality. There's so many things to factor into how you feel about why a person might feel a certain way, but personally, I think there's nothing wrong with it, regardless of what anybody's said to me about it.

I think most people who bash gays are probably gay themselves, haha. Seriously who cares if they are gay, It's two adults being together, why does it matter to anyone? It's not hurting them!

Quoting Ravey Candyass:“ I think it's ignorance. A lot of guys are "homophobes" because they think a gay man wants them. 99% ... [snip!] ... knows you're straight, he knows you don't want him, and he won't pursue anything. That's what my friend told me. He's gay.”

   

Quoting BURGER:“ Do you feel homophobia is a justified fear, think they're ignorant & intolerant, or do you question ... [snip!] ... any homophobes and have you questioned their sexuality? Almost every homophobe I've incountered seemed a little suspect to me.”

My dad's semi-homophobe but i think that has to do with the Military's view on it. (i know the view is changing but he's old school Army) He's not a gay basher or anything, he just says stuff like there's no way my son's are going to turn out that way...lol, but i think there is a good possiblity that one of my little brothers turns out Gay ^_^

My best friend in the whole wide world is gay! I love 'em ^_^

Quoting Crack Rock Steady Beat:“ I think most people who bash gays are probably gay themselves, haha. Seriously who cares if they are gay, It's two adults being together, why does it matter to anyone? It's not hurting them!”

 
i myself, love the gays
im a "fag hag" and they love it haha

they're just people.

Honestly, I couldn't care less. My family is always questioning my brothers' sexuality because of his lifestyle. However, they don't ask him, they ask me. As religious as I am, and I don't agree with it for myself, if he was, so what?! It's his lifestyle. I think that my Grandmother who really keeps on asking is terrified of it. It's almost like if she found out he was, then something would change in how she feels about him. I think that's sad, since nothing would be different, just her knowledge.... I think also that it's her religious beliefs that would do that.

i dont think it is an issue with the person who is not homosexual. untill just recently has homosexuality been a taboo in our society. it may even be a religious thing. i believe that homosexuality is wrong, but i cant say i go out of my way to be hateful, but i dont tolerate it in my life.

i think, as with any other thing, your cousin just really has strong feelings toward the immorality of homosexualism, let his opionion be- but maybe suggest to him that you feel it is offensive to be hateful towards others when you are around, ask him to maybe think a bit more positivly. if he is mature enough he will respect your feelings.

Quoting Mrs. Brittany Bader:“ My dad's semi-homophobe but i think that has to do with the Military's view on it. (i know the view ... [snip!] ... possiblity that one of my little brothers turns out Gay ^_^ My best friend in the whole wide world is gay! I love 'em ^_^”

i was gonna say, do you wanna know how many gay people are in the military?
techincally, the dont ask dont tell policy works both ways/.

Quoting Fierce Mama:“   i myself, love the gays im a "fag hag" and they love it haha they're just people. ”

Lol, I love gay guys there so fun, hee hee. My OB/GYN was a big flaimer, I loved him.  

I feel sorry for people who have nothing better to do than worry about others sexual orientation. What a boring life that must be

Quoting luv my babies:“ I feel sorry for people who have nothing better to do than worry about others sexual orientation. What a boring life that must be”

Seriously!