re: Pro-Life thread/sanctuary

Quoting *W*-Mommy of 3:“ Probably so. Owell. I am done with this. I'm not gonna let someone make me feel worse than I already do about what I did...I know it was right in the long run for me.”

You have absolutely nothing to feel bad about.

Nothing at all.

You made the decision that was right for YOU.

Quoting Dyke:“ You have absolutely nothing to feel bad about. Nothing at all. You made the decision that was right for YOU.”

I know and I keep telling myself that. It just makes me sad sometimes..and then to think that there are people out there that wish me to feel ill things is just beyond me.

Quoting *W*-Mommy of 3:“ I know and I keep telling myself that. It just makes me sad sometimes..and then to think that there are people out there that wish me to feel ill things is just beyond me.”

A large portion of the population just sucks, lol.

Quoting Dyke:“ A large portion of the population just sucks, lol.”

I know...but I guess it keeps it interesting..lol

Quoting *W*-Mommy of 3:“ The word abortion is not in the Bible. Deuteronomy 30:19(King James Version) 19I call heaven ... [snip!] ... The Bible can be very confusing and it can be deciphered in so many different ways.But it certainly doesn't say abortion. ”

The bible is confusing on some things..God also gives us five senses which is why it is different if the mother is at risk.
Adam was not born of a woman or formed in a womb.I don't know what scripture,but it says from my mothers womb you have been God.If I am not mistaken it also says that your eyes saw my unformed body.Children are a heritage and the fruit of the womb is his reward.

Quoting Ryder & Charley's Mommy:“ I was a teenager back when I was on the pill, a lot of things have changed in my life. As far as how ... [snip!] ... opinions on things are always going to be different. Not all woman are so eager to think of rape as a life ending experience.”

even more importantly, not one woman will ever be eager to think of rape as a life-starting experience!

*rubs forehead sadly*

look, rape is wrong.

there is no good reason to force someone to endure it-- b/c that's what rape is, a denial of bodily autonomy at the most fundamental level.

being strong enough to "rise above it" after the fact is not a standard by which we can measure the act itself and the fact it happens. that is ludicrous and denies each survivor the right to the grief and horror they endured b/c you've just swept it under the carpet as something they ought to be able to rise above.

you want to prove you're strong enough and get raped violently against your will? no, i didn't think so. no one needs rape in their life any more than we need sexual abuse or homicide.

there is no GOOD reason for rape-- regardless of who it happens to or how it happens to them or how they react.

RAPE IS WRONG.

if rape happens b/c god allows it to, god is a foul and evil deity indeed.

Quoting Ryder & Charley's Mommy:“ Well I am not one of those that is over there, it's not my place to be in there voicing my veiws. As ... [snip!] ... "these are the 7 deadly sins" Anger is one of those and with anger is hatred and from hatred comes murder. THOU SHALT NOT KILL.”

except when god tells you to (killing dr. tiller, eh?) or when god does it in the womb himself.

those times killing is a-okay!

*thumbs up and sparkle grins all around*

Quoting Mara:“ even more importantly, not one woman will ever be eager to think of rape as a life-starting experience! ... [snip!] ... happens to them or how they react. RAPE IS WRONG. if rape happens b/c god allows it to, god is a foul and evil deity indeed.”

This.

This.

Thisity.

This.

Quoting KSmith:“ And you wonder why pro-choice think so negatively of pro-life???   This is the kind of judgemental ... [snip!] ... abortion a legal option for birthcontrol, but I will also never judge a woman who has had one. That's not my place to judge.”

Agree, and very well put!

Quoting ♥T♥:“ I agree, I don't go come into this forum and only did because C is in my PT so I wanted to see what ... [snip!] ... the other or others. 3. a person who continues to function or prosper in spite of opposition, hardship, or setbacks.”

apparently ppl think just because they are grieving from having an abortion they are survivors, which is totally not tht...when I saw all those at first I thought they were really abortion survivors, like their mothers went for abortions & they ended up not working since there are cases of tht happening...I am very very pro-life, I have no respect for ppl who get abortions...I was 14 when I got pregnant, just a child myself, but abortion was not in the question, I wouldnt even think adoption because I feel guilty about things a lot and it would have killed me to think tht I brought this child into the world and am not raising it, I would have been wondering about my daughter evryday and it would have ate away at me even though I would have know she was in good hands....her father, 19 at the time, stayed with me (which was really a shock for the area we were in) he bought diapers and evrything we needed so its not like it was up to my parents to buy evrything...now again at 19 I am pregnant again, my daughter will be 4 in literally 2 weeks, and once again my fiance & and did not even consider adoption, of course we were both in shock but know we will do fine...how ppl can go out & get abortions is beyond me!! espically when they have gotten like multiple then they decide to have a child, thts total bull, its just not right, how can they do this?? theres women out there tht have kids literally 10 months apart & they do it, & these women think tht kids bein 2 yrs apart is gunna be too much??

Quoting ~Ali~ {PSM}:“ So I read the rules for this thread and I'd like to put my 2 cents in. Before I got pregnant I thought ... [snip!] ... I just can't help feeling a terrible sense of hate for these people. I know it's wrong, I just can't help the way I feel.”

I deffinately connect with you there, I was decently good friends with a girl & she was really trying to get pregnant at 17, when she got pregnant the first thing she thought of was an abortion, & she followed through, I cant help but have absolutely no respect for her, expically since she was TRYING to get pregnant!! my mother had 2 miscarriages and wanted another baby more than anything and this girl who had absolutely nothing worng with her or the baby, nothing tht would risk either of thems lives, just went and had one...even after the kid she was pregnant to knew a couple tht wanted to adopt a baby & she agreed tht she would have the baby and adopt it to them...I cant find it in my heart to forgive her, there are just so many ppl out there tht want children so bad & can not have them & girls just go out and have abortions as a form of birth control at times, who not save a life?? give a family a gife they have always wanted, give them the gift of life tht they themselves can not have

Quoting ohyeahdirtbag:“ its all in gods hands. theres a reason the baby will have a painful life. theres a reason the child ... [snip!] ... the cards for that baby to be adopted, then it will be. if its not in the cards for that baby to be adopted, there's a reason.”

WOW i love the things you say (:... I am a major PROLIFE supporter.
I just wanted to let you know you say good things.

Quoting Kay + Michael = Emily:“ WOW i love the things you say (:... I am a major PROLIFE supporter. I just wanted to let you know you say good things.”

   

Quoting Nico & Ava's Mommy:“ Wow, I didn't even know this part existed, I just clicked on the side when the topic was made...but now ... [snip!] ... of a survivor as someone that was handed something they didn't choose and made it through..like cancer, not a choice. thoughts?”

i agree with you about that

seethis is a good idea and you dont have girls flipping out because you ask a question on how they could do abortion the baby can feel everything when your ripping it out