re: Formerly pro-choice sanctuary

Quoting Jawbreaker:“ I have something to share: My rapist (who was supposed to be a good friend and was my old roommate), ... [snip!] ... I got a letter in the mail with a 200 dollar check, and he said more will be on the way. It's kind of bittersweet, I guess.”

WOW. That is weird. I dont even know if I could have talked to mine. It's good that you forgave him. Not for him, but for you.

Quoting N.Lo:“ WOW. That is weird. I dont even know if I could have talked to mine. It's good that you forgave him. Not for him, but for you.”

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i hate how people can be so judgmental about it. can "what it's like" be this thread's theme song LMAO

Quoting Jawbreaker:“ He's a drug addict, and he's in recovery now, so a part of his 12-step program is trying to right his ... [snip!] ... my died the day I had the abortion, but it feels good to just let the pain from it go. I can forgive, but I will never forget.”

  I know EXACTLY what you mean  

I'm deleting my posts because someone in the "Pro-Life Sanctuary" had to comment in there about what I said in here.

I smell drama.

Quoting PirateTink*Carrie*:“ i hate how people can be so judgmental about it. can "what it's like" be this thread's theme song LMAO”

SWEET! We have a theme song? I vote yes.

Quoting Jawbreaker:“ I'm deleting my posts because someone in the "Pro-Life Sanctuary" had to comment in there about what I said in here. I smell drama.”

WTTTTTTTTTTTFFFFFF.

Quoting Jawbreaker:“ I'm deleting my posts because someone in the "Pro-Life Sanctuary" had to comment in there about what I said in here. I smell drama.”

oh   don't do that. i saw that. it would be like one of us in here saying "nah nah nah nah you're TTC and we can easily get pregnant but we chose to abort". not nice.

She doesn't know what I was going through then. I'm sorry I even posted in here.

Quoting Jawbreaker:“ She doesn't know what I was going through then. I'm sorry I even posted in here.”

i'm not sorry you did.

I'll admit, I'm pro-life. And I'm not in here to judge you or try to press my views on you. I would just like to let you know that I am praying for those of you who had abortions after a rape: I am so saddened. It makes me cry to even begin to imagine the pain you must have gone through (and the pain that continues today). My aunt was robbed at gunpoint and raped. Then she was called to identify his body when his next victim killed him. I know part of the pain that she went through. I cannot fathom dealing with a pregnancy and subsequent abortion from a rape. All I can say is I will pray for your continued healing.

Quoting PirateTink*Carrie*:“ i'm not sorry you did.”

me either. you have every right to your opinion.

Quoting KSmith:“ I'll admit, I'm pro-life. And I'm not in here to judge you or try to press my views on you. I would just ... [snip!] ... fathom dealing with a pregnancy and subsequent abortion from a rape. All I can say is I will pray for your continued healing.”

Thanks.

i hope we can keep all the pro-lifers out of here.. PLEASE lets not let them ruin this because this is an amazing thing for us all to have and is looong overdue

  <3pro-choice

If any of you are as passionate as i am about the pro-choice issue i reccomend joining the NARAL! it's free. but you can sign petitions that are sent to state and national goverments and have emails sent to you about abortion issues in congress on the state and national level

Quoting KSmith:“ I'll admit, I'm pro-life. And I'm not in here to judge you or try to press my views on you. I would just ... [snip!] ... fathom dealing with a pregnancy and subsequent abortion from a rape. All I can say is I will pray for your continued healing.”

I really hope you mean this and that it is not patronizing because of guilt or anything.