re: PLEASE READ BEFORE POSTING!

absolutely totally agree

i have never had an abortion before so i dont knw if i should say anything on here, but when i found out i was pregnant (this pregnancy right now) with my 5th child abortion was definately on the tables for me reasons being i had a 6year olad girl, 4year old son and 9mnth old twin boys and the feeling in my gut was there is no way that i would have the strength to take care of 5 children under the age of 10, so i made the apointment did wat was needed prior to the actual procedure but what stoped me was my first scan. here in new zealand you have up until your 18 weeks when i had my scan i was 12 weeks my heart sank when i saw that bby had hands feet and was floating around i commend the woman that went through wat they have gone through and admire theyr courage........i'm a lil scared that my story might be offending or that i might get some negative feedback i'm sorry if this is offending it wasnt my intention and i hope i don't get any negative feedback will remove if i have to please be kind  

Quoting Josephine.p:" i have never had an abortion before so i dont knw if i should say anything on here, but when i found ... [snip!] ... this is offending it wasnt my intention and i hope i don't get any negative feedback will remove if i have to please be kind  "

Josephine, don't feel bad. We all go through our own tough situations. I don't think you are offending anyone simply because YOU chose something that maybe someone else wouldn't do. I was very harsh with women who aborted and still feel it's wrong, up until I was pregnant myself. The fears that go through one's head it's tremendous and the thought of aborting comes from the fear of not knowing how one will provide or care for an innocent child. I wish people would stop being so harsh towards women who abort and remember that it is NONE OF THEIR BUSINESS to judge. The way you judge you will be judged. I bet women who have aborted have more heart than the hypocrites that have the time to judge.

Quoting lacy jay:" i think if you lay down and have sex by choice and a blessing from god results in this you should grow ... [snip!] ... in this you should grow up and take care of your responsibilities and raise your child.. not take the easy way out and abort. "

I agree with you, (:

noted, thanks

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