Quoting lacy jay:" i think if you lay down and have sex by choice and a blessing from god results in this you should grow ... [snip!] ... in this you should grow up and take care of your responsibilities and raise your child.. not take the easy way out and abort. "
abortion does not equal easy, any person who has had one or is thinking of having one, can tell you that, It's a decision that changes not only the mother's life but also the people around her who love her and care for her. Its a physically and emotionally painful process, it's a decision that lives with you forever whether or not you go through with it. yes, I Agree that there are families out there that would give anything for a chance to raise the child that she "didn't want" or couldn't afford to carry let alone care for. but unfortunately it's also not THAT easy. for anyone who feels the need to criticize a person for a choice they made, walk a mile in her shoes, understand her situation, be her for a week, put your religious, or moral differences aside and open your mind, right or wrong choice, it still stands as her choice. but whatever the case do not judge a person by a choice she has made, because the person she may have become from that choice may one day be your boss, friend, mother in-law, or sister in law, etc...Or as most of us under 30 have discovered even our own mother's grandmother's, and aunt's had to make a decision to keep a baby and change the course of their lives or not have said baby and live with that grief. It's a hard world, lets stop making it harder for each other and just support one another in if you don't believe what she is doing is right that's one thing but don't belittle her because she believes differently.