re: Top Secret Secrets

Are you in a position that you desperately need the child support?

If not, and this may sound kinda bad, but I wouldn't ask for it. Also, look into the laws in your state, most states have a law where if the parent has had NO contact, calls, emails, anything- INCLUDING child support with the other parent/child that his or her rights can be taken away. Some states it's 6months, some states it's a year.

so how the heck did you girls get the CS to get done?

ive been dealing with CS because of medicaid (they made me file) and its my legal husband they are going after. then he has to deny my son and then get a dna test, but our CS office has not done ANYTHING and its been a YEAR!!

i mean, im really glad i am not relying on them to help support my son!

.”Quoting LoveAndSerenity:“ i know, but whenever I hear it, I want to get stoned

come here to vegas.. ill take careof you  

Quoting Tobys Mommy [Lisa]:“ so how the heck did you girls get the CS to get done? ive been dealing with CS because of medicaid ... [snip!] ... CS office has not done ANYTHING and its been a YEAR!! i mean, im really glad i am not relying on them to help support my son!”

You need to call, and essentially harass them. They take FOREVER, but if you stay on their case, they're more apt to get it done quicker.

Quoting Lost in Sin City:“ come here to vegas.. ill take careof you  ”

i'll be on the 2pm flight.  

BLAH


BG still isn't working at my house stupid stupid stupid

have you tried using a different browser?

I finally confronted Marc. He didn't stay here last night so and of course the nights he doesn't stay here Alleigh sleeps in her room. wierd right? So i told him that and told him its not fair for her to confuse her like this... and so we fought and he told me he was going to stay here and we were going to keep "playing mom and dad"... and i said if you dont go i will..

So we broke up... for good. Money is going to be really tough for me.. this is going to suck reallly bad

I'm glad you finally left him/forced him to leave. We're here for you. <3 keep your chin up! you know where to reach me if you want to/need to talk.

i wish people in trouble relationships would do what is best for them and their children. much of the time it is leaving the relationship.

its too bad more people cant be strong enough to stay away  

Quoting LoveAndSerenity:“ have you tried using a different browser?”

yep. I'm on at home right now using hidemyass.com .... it blocks my IP.

So I don't know what the fuck. I'm about to message Mara.

Quoting Booperelli:“ yep. I'm on at home right now using hidemyass.com .... it blocks my IP. So I don't know what the fuck. I'm about to message Mara.”

that's really weird. I would ask her what's going on. Maybe she accidentally blocked your IP?

Quoting LoveAndSerenity:“ that's really weird. I would ask her what's going on. Maybe she accidentally blocked your IP?”

That's what I thought happened the first time this happened to me. (this is the third time) I asked her if my IP accidentally got banned or something... she said if I had gotten banned, I would know about it. So I have no idea what's going on... but I just messaged her and told her it's an IP issue, but I don't know really what that means (if it's a problem on my end or hers, or what I can do about it) so hopefully Nick will know what to do, or if I can like change my IP or something hopefully John will be able to figure it out when he gets out of work.

Because this site sucks my ass. (the IP blocking site) it's like pure pop-ups and probably infecting my computer with spyware and whatever else.  

Quoting Booperelli:“ That's what I thought happened the first time this happened to me. (this is the third time) I asked ... [snip!] ... my ass. (the IP blocking site) it's like pure pop-ups and probably infecting my computer with spyware and whatever else.  ”

http://whatismyipaddress.com/staticpages/index.php/how-do-I-change-my-ip-address

Ah, I can't do that right now, I don't have access to the modem.

It's downstairs in the office and I don't think I have a key to it. Not to mention every freaking time I go in there I fuck the alarm up and have to deal with ADT, lol.


But Mara says the only reason this should be happening is if I had another account on this IP that got banned. But (obviously) I don't, I've never made a second account, and no other BG account has ever been logged in on this IP since I don't know anyone IRL that has a BG account (well, I do, a few people, but no one that has ever been to my apartment)