re: Top Secret Secrets

Does he see Nic often?

Quoting xpubg:“ He doesn't have a job to leave (that I'm aware of). apparently if I'm doing something, I have to give ... [snip!] ... I'm pregnant yet (we haven't seen each other since Jan 1st) and he'd definitely find out this way..... So I'm waiting a bit.”

He'll get served with papers.

Thats all the warning he needs.

Quoting LoveAndSerenity:“ Does he see Nic often?”

Hasn't seen Nic since Jan 1st.....
I like it that way too.
He used to see Nic often... but now it's been getting more spread apart.
He had his chance to take Nic for a weekend a bit back but then he never called to set it up.... and Nic got horribly sick.... then Tony went camping..... and I'm not going to risk Nic spreading germs to the new baby when he's born (he ALWAYS gets sick at his dad's house....) so he isn't allowed to go there for at least a month after the birth.... (already told Tony that he isn't allowed over there in August).


Then we should be getting relocated with my hubs in the navy..... hopefully out of the state.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ He'll get served with papers. Thats all the warning he needs. ”

That's what I was thinking.... but I have to get the timing right so that everything goes my way.

Quoting xpubg:“ That's what I was thinking.... but I have to get the timing right so that everything goes my way.”

ehh.. no matter what, its not a welcome set of paperwork.

BD got his warning the week they started deducting $150 from his chceck. lmao.

talk about a interesting weekend.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ ehh.. no matter what, its not a welcome set of paperwork. BD got his warning the week they started deducting $150 from his chceck. lmao. talk about a interesting weekend.”

so no warning before that? just money loss?

Quoting xpubg:“ so no warning before that? just money loss?”

he got the papers in the mail, but they got delayed.

lmao.

he got them when he got home from getting his check.

whn he realized the deductions were CS.

damn, my phone hasnt rang that much in a longgg asss time.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ he got the papers in the mail, but they got delayed. lmao. he got them when he got home from ... [snip!] ... getting his check. whn he realized the deductions were CS. damn, my phone hasnt rang that much in a longgg asss time.”

lmao. I imagine my phone would be ringing continuously until it finally crapped out.... which isn't too far away I'm sure.
How long did the process take you though before you finally started getting something?

Quoting xpubg:“ lmao. I imagine my phone would be ringing continuously until it finally crapped out.... which isn't ... [snip!] ... which isn't too far away I'm sure. How long did the process take you though before you finally started getting something?”

8 months.

he kept signing the paternity paperwork in the wrong spot, so that made it take 6 1/2 months longer thatn it should've.

its BELOW the line. not ABOVE it.

dipshiit.

but no paternity test or anything. ben looks EXACTLY like him.

llmao. even his mother, who hates me with a passion and thinks im a huge whore, stopped questioning the paternity when she saw him as a newborn. same head, same big barrel chest, same nose, same smile AND cry.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ 8 months. he kept signing the paternity paperwork in the wrong spot, so that made it take 6 1/2 ... [snip!] ... the paternity when she saw him as a newborn. same head, same big barrel chest, same nose, same smile AND cry. ”

My son looks like me. Has his dad's head.
I don't think they're questioning the paternity in his family though.... if they did, I have no problem testing.
If he did question it (which he actually did before, while we were still dating.... I was so offended), I'd ask him to just sign everything over so he wouldn't have to worry about it. It'd make EVERYTHING so much easier for me.

Quoting xpubg:“ My son looks like me. Has his dad's head. I don't think they're questioning the paternity in his family ... [snip!] ... I'd ask him to just sign everything over so he wouldn't have to worry about it. It'd make EVERYTHING so much easier for me.”

haha.

BD never questioned me, but his mom (the worlds biggest scumbag) swore i was after his ''money'' and ''great genetics''.

bahahahahahahahahahahaha.

so she told his whole fucking family that it wasnt his kid and that i was a major whore. as soon as everyone saw ben at the hospital, that rumor stopped dead in his tracks. he looked/s EXACTLY like BD. down to the positionhe sleeps in.

fml.

but he's got my attitude. 


nah, on the real i told BD if he doubted me, he could book and never look back. butt no, he stayed to be a royal pain in my cock.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ haha. BD never questioned me, but his mom (the worlds biggest scumbag) swore i was after his ''money'' ... [snip!] ... real i told BD if he doubted me, he could book and never look back. butt no, he stayed to be a royal pain in my cock. ”

genetics?
how could you be after his genetics... if the kid isn't his?
that makes no sense!

that's some extreme similarity. almost clone-like.
Nic just started acting more like his dad.... once he hit terrible twos. We're trying to break his attitude and bring him back to normal. He was such a nice baby.... Now he's just a brat. I liked it when he was 99% like me.

Quoting xpubg:“ genetics? how could you be after his genetics... if the kid isn't his? that makes no sense! that's ... [snip!] ... attitude and bring him back to normal. He was such a nice baby.... Now he's just a brat. I liked it when he was 99% like me.”

lol.

yeah, its almost nauseating.

and he couldn't give his genetics away. 

i love my kid, but it would be nice if he didnt look EXACTLY like the person i probably dislike most.

ben's a brat, but thats cause he's s stubborn as i am.

Quoting benji'smama [TSB]:“ lol. yeah, its almost nauseating. and he couldn't give his genetics away.  i love my kid, ... [snip!] ... if he didnt look EXACTLY like the person i probably dislike most. ben's a brat, but thats cause he's s stubborn as i am.”

Yeah.... you love the kid but hate the father.... Kinda annoying how you're stuck there. At one point you did like him though.... if you slept with him....
Mine decided that he could get away with lying to my face about pretty much everything.... bringing drugs and other illegal activities into our lives..... Then blamed it all on me.
We were supposed to get married soon and I wasn't supposed to "figure it out for another year." Yeah, he knows I don't really believe in divorce so I would have been trapped. I'm smarter than he thought.
Dumped his ass and moved on.

Anyway, I rambled. Nic's stubborn too.... like me. Stubborn with attitude like that.... ugh. My husband is stubborn like me also.... makes me worried about this next kid.

I'm going four wheeler riding!! I can't wait! It's a three hour ride, but I still want to go.