No Venting Here Just Loving and telling my story- Whats Urs?

Just to fill you in... Im 24 with my first on the way and I love my hubby to death.. We were engaged before we got prego and had scheduled the wedding for Sept 17th 2006. When that date drew near, I got terrified and didnt want to be prego in a wedding dress, so I called it off. I hurt Glenn very much and I hate that but I needed to know that the timing was RIGHT and as I had dreamed. Our folks were surprisingly okay with things but I wasnt. Why you ask? Im the one who called it off? I loved Glenn -I was just going through A TERRIBLE first trimester. We were fighting ALL the time... I was sure at times we would NOT make it through. Yes they were little fights that got way out of hand and in the end had me shouting that I hated him and I wasnt ready to be a single mom. Screwed I thought I was....
Months later I felt better- I realized that the fighting was just me NOT feeling good, Not feeling in control and me not feeling like... well ME but Still did not want to be prego in my wedding. I loved glenn but It wasnt how I dreamed my father would walk me down the aisle but to make Glenn and My folks happy I am doing BOTH. How you ask?

We went to the court house and Got married. We did the three day waiting period they have here in florida and then had a noteriy marry us on the beach. After that we invited my folks and his folks out to eat to celebrate. However the marriage is NOT real in the church yet soooo... June 3rd when The baby is 3 months old (Im due Feb 20th) I am Marrying my best friend in the EYES of GOD, I will have my father walk me down the aisle in my white gown and my mother will cry just as I ALWAYS wanted. I will be able to Toast my wedding and Have my baterlet party and honeymoon Just as I dreamed.

The first trimester was HARD... VERY HARD and I am sure there will be more HARD times to come but... I feel now that the hard times are easy.. We are a TEAM.... Im so in love with that I almost feel Obessessed with him. But thats okay right hes my Hubby....

Did other girls go through this First Trimester like I did? Hard times? Are others so In love as I KNOW I am?

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My fiance and I got engaged on Valentine's day of this year and we were planning on getting married May 2007. Well, I got pregnant and the family was like "GET MARRIED NOW!" And I was like "nope!" so we're not.  

But he did go to Boston for two months, the end of my first trimester and the beginning of my second and I broke up with him about three times while he was there. I was just a total B*tch basically. But I'm still blaming that on my hormones.  

(Now we're planning on getting married NEXT October because I want a fall wedding with the babe in it!)

Im really happy for you girls...

my story...well im sooo in love with my baby's daddy. he's not my boyfriend and no we're not engaged..we're not planning on getting married or moving back in together. But im soo happy because the first umm... 6 and a half months of this pregnancy were VERY hard!! we broke up and would argue all the time..it was hell!! He had even told me he didnt love me anymore..i am now 8 months prego and everything is perfect..he again says "i love you" and he's here for me...we're not boyfriend/girlfriend yet because we're "trying to work it out still" but we will be...i know it!! everythings just been ALMOST perfect!! God i love him...and i would love to be married to this guy...Pray for me girls..pray that he proposes!!! well Congrats to the both of you!!!

well, my babys father and i were together on and off for about 9 months, and then he moved to alabama(im in texas) and we broke it off...well, then we started doing the long distance thing, and i ended up breaking up with him. then he asked my parents for my hand in marriage and asked me...i said yes...then he came here to texas for my 18th birthday, which was when i got prego... he was here for 3 days and then went back. then about 2 weeks later he moved back down here and about 2 or 3 weeks after that we found out i was pregnant. we are both ecstatic because when he was much younger, he had spinal meningitis and his fever got so high the doctors said there was a 98% chance he would NEVER be able to have kids. this was the kind of guy who swore up and down that hae would never get married and would never have kids. ha. kinda funny i think!! ayways, we had set the wedding date for September 22 2007, but after findong out i was pregnant, we decided to postpone it because i will have just had the baby about 2 months before, and i want to have time to get back down to size to fit into my gown! plus we want to be able to go on the honeymoon we planned and have the wedding we had imagined, which you cant do without a lot of money, so it will also give us time to save up enough to do those things. another reason we decided to postpone the wedding was because we hadnt told his family or most of mine that we were engaged yet, and we DONT want all of them thinking that we are getting married just because i am pregnant. his family doesnt much like me anyway, so i really dont want them to think i am trying to "trap him" or anything of that nature. i am so in love with him that it isnt funny! he and this baby are my world !! i dont know what i would do if i lost either of them!! i think maybe his family will eventually warm up to me and the baby in time....but since most everyone knows about his boutwith spinal meningitis, there are a lot of people saying that im lying about being pregnant altogether, or that if i am, it isnt his! its irritating, but he and i both know that it IS his baby, so it doesnt really matter what anyone else has to say!
always,
ashley


**18 years old**
**due july 1st**
**i love my babys daddy!**

my husband and i met when we were 14 years old. we were friends only and became a little closer after working at our local fast food restuarant. when we were seniors i started dating someone and he left and went to the airforce right after graduation. i stayed with the guy i started dating my senior year of high school for almost 8 years and he and i had three children together. about two years into his and my relationship i had realized i had some feelings for the man i am currently married to but decided not to pursue it because i had a child already and i wanted her father to be in her life. when my childrens father and i broke up i was honest and told my hsband how i felt. we didnt have a relationship because things were complicated. two years went by and i needed to get my life together so i didnt talk to him. once i finally did an opprotunity arose and i took it. one month after talking to eachother we were married and i couldnt be happier and in 10 weeks we will be having our first child, a boy so now i have two girls and will soon have two boys.

my fiance and i had the date set but when i found out we were prgnant i told him i didn't want to look fat in a wedding dress lol he understood so we are waiting til our lil bundle of joy is born i love my fiance to death and wouldn't change him for the world i just wish we had the same workign sceduale so i could see more of him but we need money so he needs to work more but i met him at our work and i hated him the first time i saw him then came the day he acted like he didn't like me anymore and started after thie other girl so i decided to make my move and quick lol and we have been together for a year now and it has been the happiest time of my life... my first trimester was hell i puked every day sometimes every night and day i had pains up the ying yang and i didn't think i was going to live through it i told god that if he wanted us to have this baby then to please help me through this and i geuss we are destined to be parents cause i am now almost 6 months and it does get better lol

Cadensmommie wrote: my fiance and i had the date set but when i found out we were prgnant i told him i didn't want to look fat in a wedding dress lol he understood so we are waiting til our lil bundle of joy is born i love my fiance to death and wouldn't change him for the world i just wish we had the same workign sceduale so i could see more of him but we need money so he needs to work more but i met him at our work and i hated him the first time i saw him then came the day he acted like he didn't like me anymore and started after thie other girl so i decided to make my move and quick lol and we have been together for a year now and it has been the happiest time of my life... my first trimester was hell i puked every day sometimes every night and day i had pains up the ying yang and i didn't think i was going to live through it i told god that if he wanted us to have this baby then to please help me through this and i geuss we are destined to be parents cause i am now almost 6 months and it does get better lol

Okay Cadens Mommy- Crazy as this may sound you and I have A LOT more in commen then I thought. I was reading your post, (I started this Blog thing) and you and My story sounds too alike.. Its funny how to people two diffrent worlds away are alike isnt it.   I mean when I met my Baby's father I hated him. I was his Bartender and I swore to the owners of the bar I would NOT date anyone from there, but for some reason or another I couldnt get him out of my head! lol Funny how God works huh? I was not soppose to get prego and just like your trimester I had the WORST time. but We got threw everything and In less then 12 weeks I will have my FIRST little Man.. Awesome how things turn out isnt it?  

Logan's_Mommy wrote:

Cadensmommie wrote: my fiance and i had the date set but when i found out we were prgnant i told him i didn't want to look fat in a wedding dress lol he understood so we are waiting til our lil bundle of joy is born i love my fiance to death and wouldn't change him for the world i just wish we had the same workign sceduale so i could see more of him but we need money so he needs to work more but i met him at our work and i hated him the first time i saw him then came the day he acted like he didn't like me anymore and started after thie other girl so i decided to make my move and quick lol and we have been together for a year now and it has been the happiest time of my life... my first trimester was hell i puked every day sometimes every night and day i had pains up the ying yang and i didn't think i was going to live through it i told god that if he wanted us to have this baby then to please help me through this and i geuss we are destined to be parents cause i am now almost 6 months and it does get better lol

Okay Cadens Mommy- Crazy as this may sound you and I have A LOT more in commen then I thought. I was reading your post, (I started this Blog thing) and you and My story sounds too alike.. Its funny how to people two diffrent worlds away are alike isnt it.   I mean when I met my Baby's father I hated him. I was his Bartender and I swore to the owners of the bar I would NOT date anyone from there, but for some reason or another I couldnt get him out of my head! lol Funny how God works huh? I was not soppose to get prego and just like your trimester I had the WORST time. but We got threw everything and In less then 12 weeks I will have my FIRST little Man.. Awesome how things turn out isnt it?  

well. for the tow of you who hated your babys father/husband , so did i. we met at a party, and we were playing spin the bottle a few years ago, and i thought he was ugly and arrogant and he thought i was a terrible kisser....then a few years later i was dating a friend of his, and he came to my bf's house, and we just kinda had chemistry, and then we found out we worked together, as well as with my bf....it was really odd..i still couldnt stand him, and then one night we stayed after work and i was crying to him about my bf, and e comforted me and thats when i told him that i thought i likes him, and he said that he would be my friend and nothing more...then we walked outside and he walked me to my car, and he kissed me! i asked him why and he said just incase you and daniel dont work out and i never see you again, i didnt want to have any regrets, and i started crying and he asked me whyi was crying and i told him that was the sweetest thing anyone had ever said to me.
the next night, he walked into mine and my bfs apt and caught us having sex..but we were just friends so he couldnt really say anything... the next day he told my bf about us kissing....i finally got him to not be mad at me, and then john and i[my current fiance a.k.a. the best friend] went to the store to get cigarettes, because i wasnt old enough he had to go buy them...we ended up staying out for three hours talking and he told me that when he walked in on me and my bf, thats when he realized that he real12ly had feelings for me though he couldnt understand how he could have such strong feelings for me after just one kiss...we then went back to the apartment, and i broke up with my bf. and john and i let. first e went to dennys, and then to sherwood pak...we curled up on this giant octopus, and wrapped a blanket around us and gazed at the stars pretty much all night....thats when i ralized i loved him..its amazing how in just a few days, or even one night, you can fall in love with someone.......he realized i loved him before i did, he even told me that i had something to tell him, and when i asked what, he just tolde hat i would tell him when i was ready.....he still drivesme crazy, but hey, what can i say, i love the man..... but yeah the first trimester asnt exactly been a ball for me either, i only get nautious at the worst times...when imdrivnig down the road and cant stp,or whn my fince ad are trying to hav sex, or when i smell salsa!!

hm me and my husband met at a halloween party 5yrs ago. I was invited by a guy named chris and he went with his friend lauren. well, his name is chris and mine is lauren so that was strange coincidence. we dated for a brief time and drifted. I still remember the day we broke up crying at my friends house that he was just some stupid boy that needed to do a lot of growing up, yadda yadda, and that we would end up together again in the future. Well, we still talked and hung out occassionally. I was with another guy and things weren't working out. Thanksgiving night of 03' i was so upset and on the verge of breaking up with my current bf and he was the only one around to vent to, so he picked me up at my house and we had a long talk. i missed him so much over the past couple years...and I guess he still had some feelings for me because he leaned in and kissed me that night. He told me that he couldn't stop thinking about me lately and hated seeing this guy treat me like this, that he was a fool for letting me go the first time we were together, etc etc...Things were still pretty complicated then, but we ended up being together a couple months later. We just got married in november and it was one of the happiest days of my life. Time certainly changes things, especially looking back on how things were when we first met. He truly is my better half and I'm so happy that we're going to be parents and have a family soon