Quoting Pr0nkBeth:“ I'm curious to know of the women who have never aborted who voted "regretted it since the day it happened". I'm willing to bet the majority of the votes. :X”

I was thinking the same thing.

I have not regretted it to this day!

Quoting that one girl:“ I'm sorry but you have only been "ttc" for a month. It can take a lot longer than that to get pregnant. ... [snip!] ... doesn't think it's a baby until it's born. So when a baby is 40 weeks and dies in the womb he doesn't believe that is a baby?”

I know it has only been a month, but i still hate waiting. No he believes if it can't live on its own it is not a baby. So a baby has been born and lived at 24 weeks...so he would consider that a living child.

Quoting Hoping  :“ I know it has only been a month, but i still hate waiting. No he believes if it can't live on its own ... [snip!] ... live on its own it is not a baby. So a baby has been born and lived at 24 weeks...so he would consider that a living child.”

interesting. that would suck to have a stillbirth at 40 weeks and him not think it was a baby

Quoting that one girl:“ interesting. that would suck to have a stillbirth at 40 weeks and him not think it was a baby”

No he would and he was even sad when we had the abortion, he just is more "practical" and I am more emotional.

Quoting that one girl:“ interesting. that would suck to have a stillbirth at 40 weeks and him not think it was a baby”

I'm not her husband/boyfriend... but I believe that what he means is that, to him, it is not considered a baby until it is *viable*, meaning that it would have a chance at survival outside of the womb. A fetus does not become viable until around 22-24 weeks. Which, in most places is the cut-off for non-medically necessary abortions.

At 40 weeks, a fetus is considered viable. If it were born still, I'm sure he would still consider it a baby, even though it had not taken a breath. Of course, I am not him though, nor do I even know him... I just think I understand (based on her post) what he believes. I happen to agree with him.  

Quoting Hoping  :“ I know it has only been a month, but i still hate waiting. No he believes if it can't live on its own ... [snip!] ... live on its own it is not a baby. So a baby has been born and lived at 24 weeks...so he would consider that a living child.”

Just so you know, it can take up to a year for a healthy couple to conceive. That is with no issues what so ever. Getting pregnant the first month is actually pretty rare. So I am sure there is nothing wrong with you and you will be pregnant before you know it  

Quoting Dev22:“ Just so you know, it can take up to a year for a healthy couple to conceive. That is with no issues ... [snip!] ... month is actually pretty rare. So I am sure there is nothing wrong with you and you will be pregnant before you know it  ”

Agreed. It took my husband and I almost 3 years to conceive our son. And there's nothing wrong with us.   I think a lot of it was that we weren't doing it during the right time in my cycles. Plus, I just don't think I'm naturally very fertile, lol. Healthy, yes... but I guess I'm just not one of those women that gets pregnant easily. The saying "my husband can just look at me and I'm pregnant" definitely doesn't apply to me, haha.

God: I'm curious to see the results....but I don't qualify to vote.

Can I have an update of the results?

I'm pro life after an abortion that I regret with all my heart if any of you feel the same and want to talk I posted a topic.

http://forum.baby-gaga.com/about871020.html#20513921