re: What exactly should I NOT buy.

Quoting Krystal [Felix's Mum]:“ Teething sucks big time   felix started teething at 3months 3 days, but sopped after about a week - ... [snip!] ... but not enough to see it, only feel. I think i get more of his drool on me than he gets on himself when i hold him hehe  ”

Oh wow, they teeth that early? Around what month do babies eat regular people food? Smashed of course.

Quoting Anagrace:“ Oh wow, they teeth that early? Around what month do babies eat regular people food? Smashed of course.”

Doctors recommend starting bubs on solids (pureed etc) at 6 months, although, some mums do start theirs earlier. They need more nutrients from 6 months that they cant get from formula/breastmilk alone  

i got tons of lotions and clothes.

Quoting Anagrace:“ Well, I dont come from a wealthy family and my friends are barely making it with the bad economy and ... [snip!] ... the nursery furniture, about 12 little outfits, one blanket, 2 pacifiers. Should I start buying stacks of formula and diapers?”

I'd begin buying diapers, wipes, formula, etc. You could NEVER get too much of that and I've heard it goes REAL quick.