Sick of the Drama VENT *Long

OK.My daughters father was supposed to take me and her to the doctor today for her to get a shot and then to get the paternity agreement.Her appt was at 10:45.I didnt tell him the exact time because everytime I do he is late as hell and I have to reschedule like five times before he decides to show up if he shows up.Once when I was pregnant he didnt show up at all and then gave me this lame ass excuse.I figured maybe since we have a child now that he would try and be a little bit more responsible.Whenever we have someplace to go I call him to make sure hes up,but we talked last night and he said that hes always up early anyway so I just went ahead and started getting ready.I finally call him at 9 not to see where he is but because i forgot to take the base to the babys carseat out of my fathers car,So i called to ask him to bring a spare carseat cause i know he has one,So I called no answer.Im like ok i just left a message for him to call me back....A half hour goes by and he hasnt called so I send him a text message.Still no answer......Im like ok im not gonna get pissed and I called again.Still nothing...I did this until 10:30.Her appt was for 10:45 and the office is about 25 minutes away so theres no way even if he would have showed up then that we would have been on time.So i called the doctors office to reschedule and I called him again.Still nothing..I said all that to say this.Im tired of his shit I wish his dumbass would fall off the face of the fucking earth,but at the same time hes her daddy and I want her to have a relationship with him.My sons father is nowhere around and has never been,So I sort of cut her father some slack because hes made somewhat of an effort but its too much there is so much more that I havnt even mentioned, and if i did i would be typing all day.I just dont know what do to and any Advice would be appreciated.

That's hard mama. Chances are, he's set in his ways and he's not going to change. So you either accept it or let it go. Easier said that done, I know.

Good luck! Im sorry he was unreliable this morning. Next time, make back up plans.  

~*Its time to stop depending on him completely. You're going to have find other ways to get to your daughters appointments because he is obviously not mature enough to step up and be a man at this point. That's my advice! My sister went through the same drama with her sons father but once she stopped asking him for anything, thats when he started to do right by her. Good Luck honey*~

He needs to grow the fuck up!