Fucking wow

So i broke up with my sons dad yesterday because he is a compleate tool and wasnt doing things the way he should.
I waited all night to receive a text from him sayin he was sorry[thats how it usually happens] and nothing all night.
I call his house to tell his stepmom about going to get the babys pictures taken and she tells me that on friday she is taking him to so cal and they are leaving him down there to figure it out for himself.

Im amazed, i hate him right now and dont want to see him but i dont want him 7 hours away from adriel i guess im just kinda in shock, but i guess going and starting a new life is what he needs.. I guess he doesnt need us...

Do you really think she will go through with that though?

The correct sentence would be "I guess we don't need HIM" If he isn't ready to grow up and be the man he needs to be, then you're smart to just let him go. Maybe something will really hit him while he's gone and he'll realize what hes losing. Good luck hun.

Quoting Dee*Faith&Gavin*[HBC]:“ Do you really think she will go through with that though?”

yea she will, they are done with trying to help him because he doesnt want to help himself, he wont get a job. Its tough love but as much as i dont want to see him at the moment i still want our son to have a dad thats there all the time not that lives 7 fuckin hours away

Well maybe he needs to figure things out for himself. Wouldnt you want him there for your son with his shit together, then be there and fuck everything up?!

Quoting Atticus James * 12 more w:“ Well maybe he needs to figure things out for himself. Wouldnt you want him there for your son with his shit together, then be there and fuck everything up?!”

yea, i guess deep down inside i want him there for me also, no matter how mad i am at him.

Quoting Katie[marie]:“ yea she will, they are done with trying to help him because he doesnt want to help himself, he wont ... [snip!] ... want to see him at the moment i still want our son to have a dad thats there all the time not that lives 7 fuckin hours away”

Yeah, that will be really hard on both you and your son! I'm sorry sweetie...maybe this will help him, and he will come back a changed person!

Don't forget to get his address down there so you can serve him with Child Support papers...

I mean, it's great he needs "to go find himself", but that doesn't feed and clothe his kid.

everything happens for a reason .