So done with him

My little man hasent even been here for month yet and his dad is talking to other girls. I confronted him and he lied to my face and we decided to let it go and start fresh but since i found out ive been miserable and i cant even force myself to smile, so today i found out that the girl he was talking to is the same one he cheated on me with when i first got pregnant and i just cant do it so i called and told him i was done.

Im so hurt right now its unreal, i wanted to have a picture perfect family but he is a nasty person and fucking evil on the inside.
Im trying so hard to do good for my baby i went for an interview to go to college and rite before i left he told me i wasnt worth anything and that i was never going to make anything of myself, well we will see who does good in life.

I dont want him around the baby at least at the moment is there anything i can do?

I need to stand my ground ive let him walk all over me too many times wel im not going to let him walk over me and this baby

The only man you need in your life is your little boy momma...

You are def. better off without him!! He isn't going to change so you need to get that mentality now. He is the babies father tho and if he is willing to be that father you should let him. Just because he isn't a part of your life the way u wanted him to be, he's still your child's father...Ur gonna have to with your gut on this one!! Good luck.

Quoting Jerzee*Jissella*Jaylaa:“ The only man you need in your life is your little boy momma...”

I know that and im not going to let him ruin his life the way he has ruined mine.

Quoting Kristy R.:“ You are def. better off without him!! He isn't going to change so you need to get that mentality now. ... [snip!] ... your life the way u wanted him to be, he's still your child's father...Ur gonna have to with your gut on this one!! Good luck.”

He isnt trying to be a dad, he wants to see him but dads do more then see there children they provide for them.

Quoting Katie[marie]:“ I know that and im not going to let him ruin his life the way he has ruined mine.”

Good for you!! Stand your ground!!!

you can go file for custody as long as u have him with you theyll give you full custody but he can do it too it just matters who does it first but he has to have him with him my brother did it to his ex

okay first of all im sorry you are going thru this... but believe me its not worth it .. you are young girl you got your whole life ahead of you... focus on that lil boy of yours a man will come along when the time is right that will love you and your lil guy and treat you right... just walk away from the idiot all he is going to do is cause heartache momma .. if you are for sure going to stand your ground you need to figure out a custody plan.. my suggestions are to call a lawyer or your local public aid office or wic to figure out what you need to do ... if you are on public aid they will help you out and let ya know what you need to be doing.... good luck momma and stay strong and be the person you lil man can be proudof cause that is your life now

Quoting Jerzee*Jissella*Jaylaa:“ The only man you need in your life is your little boy momma...”

    i totally agree. you can do bad all by yourself so you don't need him telling you you're not worth anything. it may be a little bit more difficult doing it on your own but it won't be impossible. get your head in the game (sorry too much disney channel lol) and do what you need to do for you and your son. pray consistently and God will bring you through this...good luck hun!

Quoting sweetprincess559:“ you can go file for custody as long as u have him with you theyll give you full custody but he can do ... [snip!] ... full custody but he can do it too it just matters who does it first but he has to have him with him my brother did it to his ex”

Did he sign the birth certificate tho? Cuz if he didn't u already have full custody!

Quoting Kristy R.:“ Did he sign the birth certificate tho? Cuz if he didn't u already have full custody!”

Idk if he did or not

Quoting MeaganHertz:“ okay first of all im sorry you are going thru this... but believe me its not worth it .. you are young ... [snip!] ... need to be doing.... good luck momma and stay strong and be the person you lil man can be proudof cause that is your life now”

She's right.
You are a beautiful girl. Mr. Right will come along one day!

Quoting Katie[marie]:“ Idk if he did or not”

What do you mean you dont know?

Quoting bia.:“ What do you mean you dont know?”

Im pretty sure he did

Quoting Katie[marie]:“ Im pretty sure he did”

Dont you get them back over there?