re: HOW TO GET BANNED FROM BABY-GAGA

Quoting BG's Starbucks Guru:“ Well if it's for the best then I'm happy for you! It was just a shock, I thought you guys were engaged and everything. Does Boston know?”

yeah we were! engaged for almost 2 years. glad we didn't actually get married yet or this would have been a whole lot harder! we just had a lot of issues that i really wasn't willing to work through. i always have to be the one comprimising when it comes to big stuff and i just wasn't willing to anymore. like i left my job, i gave up my life to stay at home with boston. adam would freak out if i ever tried to go anywhere without him & get time to myself. and to top it all off he's planning on moving somewhere for a career that i wasn't willing to move. but no, boston has no idea. i don't think he would understand if we tried to explain it to him either. his comprehension isn't too great.

Quoting Pferd Penis-liebhaber:“ yeah we were! engaged for almost 2 years. glad we didn't actually get married yet or this would have ... [snip!] ... has no idea. i don't think he would understand if we tried to explain it to him either. his comprehension isn't too great.”

That's going to be hard on him AND on you! Ugh. I bet Adam is freaking out, though.

Quoting Satan:“ Wow. That part of it HAS to be hard on you. I'm sorry. I'm glad you found someone that you like though.”

yeah, i mean its a relief and hard at the same time. i think the stress of a kid that wasn't mine caused a lot of our primary issues in the relationship. i had some resentment on that aspect. its weird hearing boston call me mommy & adam daddy when me & adam know we aren't even together anymore. i guess boston sees no change b/c we were basically friends for a while now anyways. me & adam were never kissing or having sex or anything regularly. it was like we just became good friends.

Quoting BG's Starbucks Guru:“ That's going to be hard on him AND on you! Ugh. I bet Adam is freaking out, though.”

poor adam. he's been acting really great through all this but i know its tearing him up. he's such a great guy & i know he still loves the hell out of me. he just knows i wasn't happy & wanted me to be.  

my mom & dad cried for DAYS about this. everyone loves him! LoL

I love Adam cuz he is a good guy. Aaaaaaaan he's still my pet....til tomorrow  

he is a good guy!

so is anthony though! promise LoL i've only known 4 guys in my life that i never ever had an even .0000001% doubt about them being genuinly nice and just really sweet and caring. adam is one & so is anthony.

i guess i moved out of that crazy asshole phase i went through as a teen and now i only get serious with nice guys. man oh man is it nice!

what are you doing with him tomorrow? lol giving him back as a gift?

i'm giving him back to you!  

I'm sure Anthony's a good guy, not questioning that, I just still feel bad for Adam. Not saying you're a bad person or anything cuz you did what you have to do to make yourself happy but you know him putting himself aside ot make sure your happy is really a stand up thing to do ya know?

yeah it is. he's a stand up guy! i got lucky with him but for some reason it just wasn't enough. i think if circumstances were different things would have been totally different. like, i know it sounds bad, but if he didn't have a kid it would have changed a lot. boston is part of the deal & that kid drives me crazy! haha sitting at home trying to talk to a 4 year old and never being exposed to adults drives me up the wall.

Oh yea totally understandable. Too bad that was a shitty situation.

Quoting Skankalicious Hooker:“ Oh yea totally understandable. Too bad that was a shitty situation.”

I agree.