Baby daddy drama (and i'm sick of it)

Fucked up story...
So, I was minding my own business, painting the babies drawers (which btw I am going to post pictures soon) when all of a sudden I hear a banging at my door. Alright, no big deal... who could it be? Well, I answered the door and of course.. it was the babies daddy. Wonderful, now I have to put up with his stupid drama! He kept saying I had some of his stuff (which I did, but at the time I didn't really know what I had.. I didn't think I had anything). He said I had a class ring and his jacket. I thought no, he never gave me a class ring and I didn't know where his jacket was! Sooo he kept saying he was going to get a police escort to come and make me give him his stuff. Are you kidding? Why does he have to come by my house and cause drama like this? Basically in a nutshell so I don't make this post long... He started getting in my face, then two of his friends jumped on my porch, I got freaked the hell out, I grabbed my gun and kept it at my side.. telling him to leave... the cops came, the cops let me off with a warning understanding my situation, and charged him with family disruption. If I had not acted the way I did with the cops I would have been put in jail with a felony... is that right? I was scared damnit   I have the right to defend myself if I believe my life is in danger..

i don't think that you had any right to be threatening him with a gun. Gun fights and pregnancy = no bueno (IMO).

Quoting PirateTink *Just Me*:“ i don't think that you had any right to be threatening him with a gun. Gun fights and pregnancy = no bueno (IMO).”

what's no bueno mean?

Quoting Brittany♥{4 months}:“ what's no bueno mean?”

bueno= good

Quoting Brittany♥{4 months}:“ Fucked up story... So, I was minding my own business, painting the babies drawers (which btw I am going ... [snip!] ... with a felony... is that right? I was scared damnit   I have the right to defend myself if I believe my life is in danger..”

Do you have a liscence to carry? if so you're fine you were feeling threatened.. if not, you need to get a liscence real soon because you might get put in that situation again.

Never pull out a gun unless u r gonna use it.....no bueno means no good in spanish

I would have done the same thing, you are pregnant, hes over there bothering you and suddenly his friends are on your porch? Whats he need his friends there for unless hes planning to do something bad?

That's freaking retarded.

I hate men.

Especially stupid ones.

Quoting Feeleesha[JAS08]♥:“ bueno= good”

Oh, gotcha'! =D lol

Quoting Brittany♥{4 months}:“ what's no bueno mean?”

Means no good


But hell if i was pregnant again and my bd did that and had to friends with him trying to attack me i would do the same thing to try protecting myself

why not give him his stuff back and theres no reason for him to mess with you

I was scared.. I shouldn't have, I was wrong.. but I was acting on that "oh shit I might be in danger" impulse.

Quoting doniell:“ why not give him his stuff back and theres no reason for him to mess with you”

You don't know my ex well lol he did it to cause drama. Why would he come in the middle of the night for a ring and a jacket? He could have called or written a damn letter