Confusing and emotional time...HELP!!

OK so i know my emotions go sjy high and so on during pregnancy but i hate people actually saying oh its only because of your hormones!! SO WHAT?? Im still feeling this way whther or not its just the hormaones!!

So number 1, Ive never had a problem with my guy talking to other girls before or seeing them as friends and meeting up with them. MOst of my mates are guys and id be devastated if he told me i could no longer see them. These guys that are my friends are part of my world and have helped me through so much and he knows that i love him and he the only one. But then i feel insecure about him all fo a sudden. Probably because he's always on the phone to her, and then always texting her even when im around. And he non stop talks about her to me, and it makes me so angry but i cant say it...ive cried to my dad my mum, my friends and they all say tell him (i've even cried to his sis and she says the same) but i can't i admit that i ahve to but then i just cease up and say nothing. He knoes somethings wrong but i wont talk so he just drops the subkect.

2/ i dont see him much due to distance with colleges and work which is becoming hell i want to see him need him around and he's not exactly my parents favourite person at the moment so its hard. This maks the first peoblem hard too because he sees this girl all this time a college, and i want to believe he wouldnt do anything especially as he cried last time i mentioned anything like him cheating on me or so on BUT i just feel like hell and he's not helping

3/ he doesnt compliment me anymore, the most i get is sexy or angel ok so some may say thats enough, But you dont know him. he used to be so different. Ive never had such an amazing guy as him but he seems to be someone else now =( and i dont like it. Ive always felt insecure with myself and its got alot worse now due to people commenting that im fat (i havent told alot of people that im pregnant due to family reasons) and i just feel more and more like crap. He knew id dyed my hair, id told him and he said i cant wait to see but when he did he just looked and said nothing, im so confused because maybe its juts me and my hormones but i really do feel like shit, and i dont feel comfortable with my body now, i've given up most of the sport i do due to the way i look and feel and how out of breath i am (i know this is due to the pregnancy but i hate the fact i cant do my sport) Then just having to force myself to eat so that the baby gets nutritients and everything it needs is hard, i used to be very healthy and make sure i always had salads and everything but now sometimes i just want chips or unhelthy things and it makes me feel even worse. i havent told him i feel this bad but then i thought maybe he would of noticed.

4/ mood swings. He always thinks that when i cry or am upset jsut to brush it off and say oh its only your hormones don't worry! when all i want is a hug and him to tell me its ok nothings wrong all is well i love you and so on, but i just get dont be so moany! or i'm not gonna get you pregnant again if all you do is moan!! i just want to cry then because we just sort of disconect and then there is nothign there. But when we are together and we are havign a good time he's my best friend and he's always there for me. But recently this just seems to have disapeared maybe thats just me.

Am i being stupid? I dont know what to do, I love him, but i just dont see the point at the moment...HELP!!

Sorry to hear about your troubles, hun. Anytime I get mad or cranky, my bf will tell me that getting mad isn't going to help anything. As if I'm just going to say, oh really? No sh*t? Well, then I guess I'll just not get mad ever again, lol. Whether it helps or not, it's not like I can just shurg off my emotions like he can, and it's not always hormonal.

Luckily my guy is a good one and pretty easy to talk to. I am fairly insecure myself, but when there is something I need from him, I just sit him down and talk about it. I know, always easier said than done, but it does help to get it all off your chest. And when I explain something to my guy, whether it's an isecurity or whatever, I let him know that even if I can't rationalize it, I can't help how I feel.

Anyhow I wish you the best and hope you are able to talk things out with your guy. Good luck.

hey you know what i find my self acting the same exact way...maybe it is just me being pregnant. Its like now I need so much more attention and im not getting it so any little attention I dont get I get so jealous and lash out.   U really should tell him how u feel that way he can accomidate u and as long as he understands and cares he should tone down a bit

Ha. Going thru all this too. Whether or not he thinks I am irrational I still feel that way. So not taking me seriously right now is no different than any other time. When I feel this way or that way I am FEELING it. It sucks. That's why I vent to my best girl friend. She takes me serious and listens. Plus she has had two kids and knows what I'm going thru.