re: Abuse and Depression Support

Quoting Jezamortis [ES]:“ I just don't see what people have the need to come in a thread like this and say something so ....well, confusing and rude.”

who was rude?

First off I was upset at the time. I wrote my story of being molested and no one could even reply to what I had said it was here for 3days or 4. So yeah if this is what the thread is for....................

Quoting Juicy Jones:“ First off I was upset at the time. I wrote my story of being molested and no one could even reply to ... [snip!] ... could even reply to what I had said it was here for 3days or 4. So yeah if this is what the thread is for....................”

im sorry 

Quoting Sarah BG Addict™:“ im sorry ”

Thanks.

I am reposting what I posted the other day...

"I saw someone get angry in this tread about no one responding to her post. I think she deleted her post that she originally typed out. I have been racking my brain over this thread. While I read every post, I am still trying to be completely free from my soon to be ex-husband. Until I am doing it all on my own, and able to stand on my own two feet I can not really sit here and tell someone that they should leave/stay/etc. I hope that none of think that no one is here for you, we don't understand, etc. We do care, you can see many others who are going through what might be the same or similar issues as yourself. Maybe it just helps to talk about it a little. I am sorry that if my not replying made you feel like no one cared. I am sorry that this kind of stuff has or is happening to you, and I hope that it is all in the past for you now."

Juicy Jones
posted 3 days ago
"This thread is lame. I should have never posted in here."

I just thought is came off as rude. I could be wrong. It was just my first impression.

Ahhhh....let's just forget it  

So this morning I had a strange number call me, it was an area code from my home state so I let it go to voice mail because I just got my son to sleep for his morning nap. Well about an hour later I check it and its someone from Kennestone Hospital telling me my mom is there! WTF, well her boyfriend pushed her out of the care at 25mph and just left her on the road!!! The next car stopped and called 911. This guy is a jerk and has already been in jail once this month, my mom is pressing chargers but im sure his parents will get him out. I want to get her up here bc he is going to end up killing her. We do not have a grand for a plane ticket. What do i do? The nurse said she has blood on her brain, a fractured arm and broken leg.

Quoting Loving Life!:“ So this morning I had a strange number call me, it was an area code from my home state so I let it go ... [snip!] ... not have a grand for a plane ticket. What do i do? The nurse said she has blood on her brain, a fractured arm and broken leg. ”

OMG! Wth! I'm sorry babe. That is very messed up!

Quoting Loving Life!:“ So this morning I had a strange number call me, it was an area code from my home state so I let it go ... [snip!] ... not have a grand for a plane ticket. What do i do? The nurse said she has blood on her brain, a fractured arm and broken leg. ”

That is terrible  

sometimes i wish my babys daddy had more respect for me .. he reminds me a lot of my father when i was a little kid except everyday he always has to put me down by calling me names no matter what tha situation is i could just say "hey baby" and that would trigger him to say "shut up b----!" we have a lot more issues than that but thats one of our fights that has been our daily routine since my baby was 2 weeks old and just a little before she was born but it really got worse after i had our baby.. ive considered leaving him but im giving him one more chance and waiting for my school "cost of living" loan to come in and see where this takes me because i really dont want to raise my daughter around someone who is going to constantly put women down ... money, disrespect, and myspace seems to be our problems...

iv had alot of different abuse growing up..
from sexual abuse from my gpa ages 3-10 .. which im now just startin to open up about to my BD beating the fuck otta me being 3 monhts pregn
to dealin with my mother who is very depressed and developed a drinkin problem the last 4 yrs.. everytime something goes wrong in her life she starts drinking heavily and takin her pills and talkin about suicide.. which has been alot these past few months .. growin up- she was the single hard workin mom who provided for me and my sister and gave us all the love and attention and eveyrthing we needed.. 100% not the person she is now and it hurts to c her like this.. my sister does her own thing and doesnt worry much about my mother but i live with her andi have to deal and go thru all herepisodes.. im not use to this kind of life and alot of times i just cry cause i dont know what to say or do for her. i feel like i have to deal with the situation myself alot bc my sister just doesnt care half the time and my gma, well thats another story. its just put alot of stress on me and being preg. isnt helping.

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Quoting Babymomma0711:“ I have had Some sexual abuse growing up but nothing hurt me more then the abuse i recieved from the father ... [snip!] ... prevent for our children in the future. I wont lie i am deathly afraid of guys because of this but one day ill be okay again”

omg i am so sorry you dont need an ass hole like that in yout life you are to good of a women
my x hit me once and i was out i have very lowself ofsteam but i will never let a man hit me and stay with him. i have had a fuck up child hood and my x use to make fun of it which killed me in side. i should left him right when he started to makefun of me and talkdown to me but i thought i was no good andthats what i get....im so glad i am not with him anymore.
i found a man the father of mysonwho the sweettest man ever.
i never knew men like him were real i was so use to gettingfuck by men.

I've been meaning to write in thisthread for a while already but just decided to do so.
My name is Angie. I have a 5 month old baby. I recently married the father of my child. We are living in my house with my grandma. We have been having some problems but nothing like the ones we have now. Everything that I do he calls me stupid, dumb bitch, retard. Of course I cry. I can't take any more of it. When I cry he tells me to shut up or else he will beat me. The only thing I culd do is grab the baby and go to my grandma's room and hide. He has already pushed me and hit me before. He has threatened to kill me if I call the cops on him. It has gotten to the point that if I didn't have the baby I would have killed myself already. I feel like if I'm worth nothing. He uses drugs. I am terrified of him. I work in the same place as him so he gives me a ride. On our way over here he kept on saying if you dont like me calling you stupid then leave me. When I ask him why he calls me that he tells me the same thing. Sometimes I think there is another girl cause this literally happened from one day to another. He used to be nice, we had our regular recently married couple discussions. He says that he is stressed out cause we are living with my grandma and thats why he acts like that but he really does love me. I don't believe that cause one thing is being stressed and another is to get in my face telling me he is going to beat me to death. I am mostly scared for the baby. I wish I had the strength to just leave him. Sometimes I wish like disappearing with the baby and start a new life. I had depression after the baby and I went to the doctor to look for help to save our relationship. I know we can still do something about it. When I tell him to go to a doctor or somewhere to see what he can do he just laughs and tells me nothing is wrong with him, that I'm just a stupid bitch. I have lots of feelings for him. He is the father of my child. I don't know what to do. I am so scared. Yesterday I told him to leave the house (it is my house) and he just laughed and said he wasn't going anywhere until he felt like it. He started threatening that he felt like killing everyone in the house. I am terrified and I don't know what I should do.

Quoting In love!!!:“ I've been meaning to write in thisthread for a while already but just decided to do so. My name is ... [snip!] ... it. He started threatening that he felt like killing everyone in the house. I am terrified and I don't know what I should do.”

you should leave him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
you have to think about your child life do you want him growing up seeing his dad do that what id he hits the kid one day