re: Abuse and Depression Support

Quoting BGLover wants 2 slap a ho:“ I guess I will start as a child my mom didnt care much for my sisters, my brother, or myself. SHe wasnt ... [snip!] ... fought in my house hold growing up. I dont hold that grudge against my mom because it tought me what NOT to do w/ my kids.”

I'm sorry mama, that's horrible. And you're right, it does make you an even better mom.

Quoting lindseyglover:“ thanks ! great idea too...it helps to talk about stuff sometimes”

Yea it does........... it doesnt have to have happened yesterday. I know every once in awhile the feelings and memories come back and they kinda linger and you need to get them off of your chest.

i think this is a great idea.. i will be back to this but now is not the time.

Quoting Alice & Mya:“ I guess I'll share. My dad used to torture me I don't know what it was about me. Maybe it was because ... [snip!] ... where my summer school program noticed bruises and me acting out, and called child services. I NEVER talk about him anymore.”

Sounds kinda like my mom. She had alot of resentment towards my older sister. I seen her hit on her and just do the worst things. I tried to stop it but it only caused me to get hit. I felt so hopeless. I wanted to die at such a young age. But its molded me into a humble person. I think its better to let kids be kids while they still have that opportunity

Quoting BGLover wants 2 slap a ho:“ I know hun. Work things out with you first and when you are ready then step up and take charge. Get ... [snip!] ... Get him back. Whats you have to do is focus on getting yourself better. You have to be better before your home can be perfect.”

thanks

Quoting Alice & Mya:“ I'm sorry mama, that's horrible. And you're right, it does make you an even better mom.”

O it got bad, real bad. I mean I was so depressed all the time. I was looking forward to school just for the meal. I would get parnoid because I would think someones judging me or I thought they were trying to take something away from me like my food or even something as small as a pencil. I was a mess.

Quoting ~*KATY*~*Jeff Hardy*:“ i think this is a great idea.. i will be back to this but now is not the time.”

Thats ok.... when you are ready.

Quoting BGLover wants 2 slap a ho:“ I was thinking we need an Abuse Support Thread. Any form of abuse is welcome be it verbal, sexual, or ... [snip!] ... another poster trying to get their feelings out there. Everything said in this thread STAYS here or you are not welcome back.”

AWESOME!!!! I always wished I had someone to talk to when I was pregnant with Jasmine and her dad was hitting me....Everyone just said to leave and no-one really told me how.....I felt like NO-ONE understood my situation......

i was physically/mentally abused by my dad when I was smaller. I was TERRIFIED of snakes and bridges and when we went to the zoo I'd cry. He held me up to a cage and told me it was harmless little animal so I looked at it was a giant snake striking. And he held me over a bridge one time because I was being mouthy or some such. I was also in an abusive type relationship. I fought back every time but he tried to choke me once.

Quoting BGLover wants 2 slap a ho:“ Sounds kinda like my mom. She had alot of resentment towards my older sister. I seen her hit on her and ... [snip!] ... age. But its molded me into a humble person. I think its better to let kids be kids while they still have that opportunity”

Yeah, I agree. I haven't seen my dad since I was 11, and I seriously think it's part of the reason why I've been so dependent on men in the past. I still feel like I can't be ever be alone (single).

Quoting BGLover wants 2 slap a ho:“ O it got bad, real bad. I mean I was so depressed all the time. I was looking forward to school just ... [snip!] ... or I thought they were trying to take something away from me like my food or even something as small as a pencil. I was a mess.”

Wow, no child should have to go through that. How does she treat you now? Or is she out of your life?

Quoting Suzie S.....13 days left!:“ AWESOME!!!! I always wished I had someone to talk to when I was pregnant with Jasmine and her dad was ... [snip!] ... hitting me....Everyone just said to leave and no-one really told me how.....I felt like NO-ONE understood my situation......”

O no..... did you get away?

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Quoting PirateTink *The Spork*:“ i was physically/mentally abused by my dad when I was smaller. I was TERRIFIED of snakes and bridges ... [snip!] ... being mouthy or some such. I was also in an abusive type relationship. I fought back every time but he tried to choke me once.”

  Thats sad..... stuff like that when you are little is hard to deal with cause you dont know how. As for a guy trying to fight you not cool choking even worse. A man is never a bigger pussy then when he puts his hands a woman! IMO

Quoting BGLover wants 2 slap a ho:“   Thats sad..... stuff like that when you are little is hard to deal with cause you dont know how. As ... [snip!] ... a guy trying to fight you not cool choking even worse. A man is never a bigger pussy then when he puts his hands a woman! IMO”

it was sad when i was little. i don't talk to my dad much as a result. he once said that he kept having children until he found one he couldn't break. he LIKED us being scared of him. i just never really was. and you know who i'm talking about...mcbride...when he choked the shit out of me then stalked me on BG.