He's pissing me off!!!

My BD is really starting to piss me off..He keeps saying how he doesn't want anymore kids right now, and how I'm being selfish by having this baby anyway...He says I made a decision without caring how he felt and he's not ready for anymore kids...He has a 4 year old son already...I told his ass when we 1st got together how I felt about kids because for the longest I thought I couldn't get pregnant again...Because I already had 2 abortions before and the last time I was preggers was in 2000, and here it is 08" and I was so happy when I find out...I always thought God was punishing me for what I had done...I swear I get tired of him bringing that shit up...I'm like shut the fuck up and be a man dammit and deal with it instead of bitching about it all the time!!!

Sorry, just had to get that out...I'm on lunch break and he just totally ruined my appetite....

Tell him it takes two to tango and if he didn't want the baby then he shouldn't have had sex.

Quoting ♥Evan's Mommy♥:“ Tell him it takes two to tango and if he didn't want the baby then he shouldn't have had sex.”

 

Quoting ♥Evan's Mommy♥:“ Tell him it takes two to tango and if he didn't want the baby then he shouldn't have had sex.”

Agreed.

Quoting ♥Evan's Mommy♥:“ Tell him it takes two to tango and if he didn't want the baby then he shouldn't have had sex.”

agreed.

and if he doesnt want to be there, then fine... leave his ass. plenty of mothers do it on their own. he'll regret it.

I'm having that problem too, he told me that I had to choose between him and the baby. That he doesnt want a kid with me and that if I "force him into fatherhood" that he will never forgive me.
Asshole...I agree it takes two to fuck so he shoulda thought about that beforehand.

Quoting juliemw42:“ I'm having that problem too, he told me that I had to choose between him and the baby. That he doesnt ... [snip!] ... fatherhood" that he will never forgive me. Asshole...I agree it takes two to fuck so he shoulda thought about that beforehand.”

youres just might be in shock, it takes them a while to come to terms with the fact that theres really a baby coming into their lives....

Quoting blonde momma:“ youres just might be in shock, it takes them a while to come to terms with the fact that theres really a baby coming into their lives....”

Shock would be nice.

Gosh why is it so hard for men to realize:

Sex = Babies.....not all the time but that is how babies are made!

Quoting call me Reese:“ My BD is really starting to piss me off..He keeps saying how he doesn't want anymore kids right now, ... [snip!] ... about it all the time!!! Sorry, just had to get that out...I'm on lunch break and he just totally ruined my appetite....”

I was in the same situation. But he knew one day I wanted to have kids I just couldn't since the dr had said so. WHen we first find out he was MAD. i told him im not giving up my baby for nothing( I already had 4 abortions) and i would leave his ass first. He said i was selfish too and had the nerve to ask me "what about his kids"( he has 2 they are 5-6) and i was like "What about them" . Eventually he got over it but it still pisses me off how he got to chose her name and he's all into it but at first he didnt want her.Like his mother told him "U put that D!ck in her"....deal with it. I tell him all the time God wanted ME to have YOUR baby so u shoudl feel special. All i can say I guess is give him time.

He should've left his dick in his pants! 2 late now

Quoting juliemw42:“ I'm having that problem too, he told me that I had to choose between him and the baby. That he doesnt ... [snip!] ... fatherhood" that he will never forgive me. Asshole...I agree it takes two to fuck so he shoulda thought about that beforehand.”

If that's what he's sticking with, he's not worth it. I'd chose the baby over him.