Boy do I have problems

ok so had one boy Jan 16, 2008 and we are TTC #2 and we are shooting for a girl so I have been looking up different methods and most of them involve charting your cycles. Well what if you dont know it? After Phoenix I had the Mirena IUD put it and then taken out but since Febuary I havent had a period at all bc of the mirena and I had it taken out at the end of OCT and noooo period so how would I chart this?

not a clue... but i HEARD that the sperm for boys swim faster than the ones for girls... i have no idea if there is any truth to it... but i was told if you want a girl to have sex on top!

Try the Chinese birth calenderI swear it works!

I have no clue. I have a girl and want a boy, but we will just be happy to get preggo at all at this point.

Quoting Ryan's Mommy!!:“ Try the Chinese birth calenderI swear it works!”

Was wrong for me with my first  

Quoting xboo1111x:“ Was wrong for me with my first  ”

Really?It was right for me both times and my sisterI just knewI was having a boy this time b/c it said boy. And sure enough we got another boy.

if you're not having periods then you're not ovulating. (I have this problem but it's due to PCOS). Unfortunately until your period comes there isn't anything you can do to increase your chances, you have to bring on your period.

If it's been more than 6 months since your last period, you can talk to your doctor about putting you on a low dose hormone for 2 weeks-1 month, and it might kick start you. If you don't want to go the doctor route, you can order Vitex (Chaste berry) and it might help bring your period back naturally. It didn't work for me, but I know people that it has worked for.

Quoting xboo1111x:“ Was wrong for me with my first  ”

yeh it was wrong for me too...it said Phoenix was supposed to be a girl! lol

Quoting Mrs.Rachael TTC#1:“ if you're not having periods then you're not ovulating. (I have this problem but it's due to PCOS). Unfortunately ... [snip!] ... berry) and it might help bring your period back naturally. It didn't work for me, but I know people that it has worked for.”

Well I didnt have my period because of my Mirena IUD and I just got it taken out so I'm going to wait to see if it will start because I am sure it wouldnt be back from only a couple of weeks. If it doesnt in the the next week or two then I will def call up my doctor because I need my period.

Quoting Jes & Phoenix:“ Well I didnt have my period because of my Mirena IUD and I just got it taken out so I'm going to wait ... [snip!] ... only a couple of weeks. If it doesnt in the the next week or two then I will def call up my doctor because I need my period.”

yeah I just noticed that you said you got it out in Oct. for some reason I was thinking you got it out earlier. Yeah, just wait for the first period, give your hormones time to even out. GL

When you get back on track, try webMD's ovulation calculator. They have a link in there if you are trying for a boy and trying for a girl. It will tell you exactly what days to bd to get the best chance of either. http://www.webmd.com/baby/healthtool-ovulation-calendar