Labor coming soon husband still drinking

Okay so I really dont know what to do, A week and a half ago the doctor said I could go into labor at any time, most likely within a week, its been a week and 2 days and I havent yet but it could. So anyway, my husband won't stop drinking, and last night he got sooooo trashed. I don't know what to do because everytime I talk to him he tells me that he's sorry and he won't do it again and then he does it again. I just hate to think that I may go in labor with no one to help me with my 2 year old or to drive me to the hospital. And then the fact that when my new baby girl meets her daddy he'll be shit faced. UGGHHH!!!

um it sounds to me like he has a problem..
he NEEDS to get his act straight, if not for you, then for his child.

no child needs an active drunk as a parent.

Quoting Skylie's on her way:“ Okay so I really dont know what to do, A week and a half ago the doctor said I could go into labor at ... [snip!] ... old or to drive me to the hospital. And then the fact that when my new baby girl meets her daddy he'll be shit faced. UGGHHH!!!”

Ugh... I know what you mean... Mine did the same thing.... Where in LA are you

I'd get a backup plan for your two year old in place ASAP and if you need to use it, show him the door until he gets his shit together.

Quoting Skylie's on her way:“ Okay so I really dont know what to do, A week and a half ago the doctor said I could go into labor at ... [snip!] ... old or to drive me to the hospital. And then the fact that when my new baby girl meets her daddy he'll be shit faced. UGGHHH!!!”

i would telll him to either get help or get out.. i no its hard but my daughters father was like that and i kicked him cause he was a danger to me and her

Anyone else who will watch your 2 yo and drive you to the hospital. Maybe you shouldn't count on him to be there, I mean he can't be trusted, and this is serious. You need a birthing plan and one you can rely on.

Quoting .mary.:“ um it sounds to me like he has a problem.. he NEEDS to get his act straight, if not for you, then for his child. no child needs an active drunk as a parent.”

Exactly. If he can't control his drinking, as he says, then he needs help. End of story.

is there a parent or friend you could maybe stay with?

Fuck him up his stupid ass!!! They wont let him be in the L&D room if he's intoxicated. Obviously he doesn't care or he would stop. Drop his ass. If my husband pulled that shit I'd go Loraina Bobbit on his ass.

Quoting OGPillowpants Chronic MOD:“ Fuck him up his stupid ass!!! They wont let him be in the L&D room if he's intoxicated. Obviously ... [snip!] ... Obviously he doesn't care or he would stop. Drop his ass. If my husband pulled that shit I'd go Loraina Bobbit on his ass.”

hahahah  

guys dont become fathers until the baby is here.

Quoting Cinderella ♥:“ guys dont become fathers until the baby is here.”

Guys are douche bags.

He sounds like a real winner!

Have a different plan hun. He shouldn't be putting you through this at all, least of all at this time. I'm sorry hun! Hope he gets his shit together, or kick him to the curb!

Quoting Cinderella ♥:“ guys dont become fathers until the baby is here.”

he should already be acting like a father with a 2yro in the house...

Quoting Cinderella ♥:“ guys dont become fathers until the baby is here.”

They have a two year old. He's already a father. And sounds like a piss poor one at that.