just venting!

okay it seems like alot of women on here has a supportingmateor "baby daddy" and I think that is a great and beautiful thing that I wish I had also but I dont and I am pissed as hell...my older brothers bestfriend is the father of my baby we have been around each other damn near our whole damn lives I never really thought too much about him until this year after I left my husband and that was because he was being supportive and helping me out through my divorce because he himself is divorced (going on 2 years) one ofour oh so passionate nights he decided to remove the condom and didnt tell me and I wasnt really paying attention and thats the night I got pregnant and when I told him he wanted me to get an abortion and I just wasnt going to do it so he told me "dont call it OUR baby just say YOUR baby becuase I am not going to have anything to do with it. I wish I could be there for you but I just cant if you would choose a differnt option then I would be...you would only feel bad for a couple of months if you had the abortion." WHAT THE HELL!!! I know I am going to have to do it on my own but it just really pisses me off. My brother feels like he will be speaking a different tune when the baby gets here but I am just like damn why when the baby gets here and not now I belive he is always gonna be the same "DEAD BEAT!"

Quoting Mommy to Jasirah or Nasir:“ okay it seems like alot of women on here has a supportingmateor "baby daddy" and I think that is a great ... [snip!] ... gets here but I am just like damn why when the baby gets here and not now I belive he is always gonna be the same "DEAD BEAT!"”

I'm sorry hun. Tell your brother to kick him in the balls  

Quoting Mommy to Jasirah or Nasir:“ okay it seems like alot of women on here has a supportingmateor "baby daddy" and I think that is a great ... [snip!] ... gets here but I am just like damn why when the baby gets here and not now I belive he is always gonna be the same "DEAD BEAT!"”

i think all guys who say abortions r dead beats.
my sister got preggo with her 2nd and the guy kept sayin ABORTION.

me and my cousin talked her out of it, then she moved an hour away to go to school and he talked her back into it.
that easily.
and in a dream i had i was talkint to a baby boy dark complicted with huge white beautifu\l angel wings.

then i found out she had an abortion.
but the angel baby kept sayin its alright. so i believe i talked to my nephew.
and he is the only reason why i dont hate her guts, is because he told me its alright

Quoting OC_Mommy:“ ”

Hey you're due the same day as me and you are in CA 

That sounds similar to what happened with my husbands father.
Needless to say, his mom said fuck off to him, had Justin, and Justin has never met his father (not b/c his mom didnt want him to either, but b/c his dad is a fucking loser). He knows his name, lived in the same town as him for 22 years and saw him at a football game once (not knowing it was him until his little brother pointed him out).
Long story short, my husband has never met his father, nor does he ever want to. He was 100000000 times better off without the father who didnt want him, tried to make his mom get an abortion, then left her pregnant.

You and the baby are better off.

thanks everyone I appreciate the words of encouragement somethings I just need to hear from someone else that I already know!

I hate men like that! He wasnt going to be there for you, and I hate when guys say well if you do this than Ill be there for you. Their either gonna be there for you no matter what or not at all. Hes a fucking dumbass who couldnt use a fucking condom probably because "it didnt feel good" and now isnt man enough to deal with the consequences. Im sorry girl he sounds like a deadbeat and that totally sucks becuase you dont deserve that shit. It would be great if he was there for his baby but just dont plan on it and if it does happen dont ever let him forget the way he used to act about itt.

Quoting OC_Mommy:“ ”

Yeah I am in NorCal