now that she is here...problems begin...vent

ok so now that our little Brooklynn is here, me and her father have been at it since the day i left the hospital. my baby was born at 37weeks and we werent fully prepared for her. she came the day b4 we moved into the new apt. we have fought ove reverything from how ruff he is with her to the fact that i cant do anything b/c i had a c-section to i dont pay him any attention. since the day i came home, its hard to be happy. yes, i am happy, but its hard to show that. esp with him bitcing and moaning about everything. is it me? i havent had the energy to do much. Brooklynn is 2wks today. i hate the fact that he allows her to cry for long periods of time, so mommy to the rescue to c whats wrong and he cant stand it. i also think he is a bit jealous of the baby as well. he gets frustrated because i cant do much around the house. but thats b/c i had a c-section. i will b down for the next few weeks. now he is becoming frustrated b/c the baby crys everytime he get her. i told him before that she may cry b/c u aggrevate her each time u gt her and make her cry. idk, maybe it me, maybe its not. sometimes i think maybe we moved to fast. sometimes i wish he would grow up. a lot of times i wish i could go ack to the hospital where it was nice and peaceful. please help! are u ladies going thru the same thing. have u went thru this. *sorry for being so long and all over the place*