the father of my baby ..

is trien' to step it up, we hung out today & i can tell that he seems like he really wants to be with me & help out.
& he was actually bein REALLY nice to me n' everything!
he's not usually like that .
he's usually callin' me a whore an sayin thats not my baby.
but he didn't say one thing like that today  
soo, i don't know what to believe?
i mean it's been awhile since he's said anything mean to me.
& he was talkin' about gettin back together and makin everything serious again,
but i don't know ..
can you guys help me out??

Run.


Fast and far.

take it for what it is.. just dont get your hopes up.. stay strong so this way if he dissappoints youll be ok...

I cant,you only can.

Just be careful. follow your heart.

sounds like he's lacking in the nookie department, and he knows youll put out.

Idk but that's how my babys dad was acting with me out of nowhere, being super nice and really "trying to work things out" but only because he had a guilty conscious(sp?).... Come to find out, he was cheating the whole time!!! Not saying yours is doing the same but be careful before you fall into anything with him!! It creeps me out when someone acts toooo nice all of a sudden.... JMO.

Quoting L ♥ 's bebe Daxen:“ sounds like he's lacking in the nookie department, and he knows youll put out.”

sadly sweetie I have to say I agree with the above statement. I would not trust him as far as I could throw him!

Quoting Sarah+2:“ Run. Fast and far.”

Agreed. Guys are jerks. Course you could be that in that lucky .1% of girls that get lucky.

Quoting ♡'n [Jayden]:“ Idk but that's how my babys dad was acting with me out of nowhere, being super nice and really "trying ... [snip!] ... but be careful before you fall into anything with him!! It creeps me out when someone acts toooo nice all of a sudden.... JMO.”

yeah i know, we use to great! untill i told him that i was pregnant then everything changed.
but his mom called me after i found out that i was pregnant and she said that he hadn't been seeing anyone, he's just been stayin home all the time.
so i don't think he has anyone else ..
the only thing i can think of is that he's scared?

Take it one day at a time but DO NOT get your hopes up...

Quoting jessica dawn (::“ is trien' to step it up, we hung out today & i can tell that he seems like he really wants to be ... [snip!] ... was talkin' about gettin back together and makin everything serious again, but i don't know .. can you guys help me out??”

If he ever says that to you once, he'll say it again. He might not have said it this time, he may wait for years, but he will say it again, because people who disrespect women once will not hesitate to do it again, except for when that woman has something that they want. Noone deserves that, and you should love and respect yourself enough to not allow him to treeat you like that. Good luck.

Quoting kAliLa ♥:“ Take it one day at a time but DO NOT get your hopes up...”

yeah, that's sorta' what i told him when he asked about gettin' back together.

Quoting jessica dawn (::“ yeah i know, we use to great! untill i told him that i was pregnant then everything changed. but ... [snip!] ... just been stayin home all the time. so i don't think he has anyone else .. the only thing i can think of is that he's scared?”

Is his mom watching his every move? I don't think its possible for his mom to know EVERY little thing he is doing or every person he is talking to. Again, I'm not saying he is cheating but all of a sudden he's bein real nice, BE CAREFUL AND TAKE IT EASY. One day at a time mama! Good luck

thanks everyone for the advice .
i'm not really for sure what to do at the moment .
i've been with him for almost2 years and he doesn't have a mean bone in his body! untill i found out that i was pregnant, it's like he's scared or somethin'? idkk - this is all just soo crazy right now.