i want to cry

i hate this! here i am thinking i'm so close to the end, and the damn stupid terrible hospital changed my due date AGAIN! i don't even know why! he didn't measure me, or check me, he just wrote me a parking pass for November 5th. I asked him why, and when he looked at my charts he said that I have incorrect due dates written down. This will be the fifth due date i've heard. I told him my 28 week ultrasound put me at October 23rd, that was the most recent one. Then he said my 6 week u/s put me at November 5th. But that's not true! Because when I went in for that u/s she put me at October 31st. the first due date ever i was ever given.

and then he told me that wasn't accurate information, and that he doesn't forsee me to deliver in any less than a month. it may be even longer because first time pregnancies tend to go over. but i had gone in the week prior and the woman told me that she wouldn't be suprised if i popped "any day now" which was also ridiculous. she didn't even have my medical charts.

i keep getting mixed information, i just want to know where the hell i am. i'm trying to switch hospitals, but I don't have insurance. I thought I did, but my family and I just found out that I'm an emancipated minor, and that their insurance won't cover me...unless it's military because that will cover me until i'm 21. so i'm just really stressed.

i hate that stupid hospital!!!

Quoting oddish:“ i hate this! here i am thinking i'm so close to the end, and the damn stupid terrible hospital changed ... [snip!] ... me...unless it's military because that will cover me until i'm 21. so i'm just really stressed. i hate that stupid hospital!!!”

Guess what. Damn what date they give you, your baby is going to come on his/er BIRTHday. I know you are mad but calm down it's going to be okay.

My u/s dr wouldn't cahange my date because it was on his birthday. He even said the baby was big and the date should be moved up,but he wasn't going to do it.

Oh, goodness... I'm sorry, hun.It looks likethe only thing that will give you any idea of when you're due is when you actually go into labor. That sucks. That must be some hospital to give a patient so many unsure results. Best of luck to you, hun. You never know -- maybe you'll go into labor tomorrow.

Quoting ProverbialQueen:“ Guess what. Damn what date they give you, your baby is going to come on his/er BIRTHday. I know you are mad but calm down it's going to be okay.”

i know, you're so right, it's just so stressful to hear one week "any day now!" and then the next more than a month...

i guess it's up to the baby, he should be able to choose his birthday...

OMG!! I would just go with Oct 23rd... i wouldnt worry about it.. they are all just guesses any way... The baby will come when ever the baby is ready... 

Quoting oddish:“ i know, you're so right, it's just so stressful to hear one week "any day now!" and then the next more than a month... i guess it's up to the baby, he should be able to choose his birthday...”

righty-o. hope you feel better!  

Quoting BabyHuey:“ Oh, goodness... I'm sorry, hun.It looks likethe only thing that will give you any idea of when you're ... [snip!] ... to give a patient so many unsure results. Best of luck to you, hun. You never know -- maybe you'll go into labor tomorrow.”

yeah it's a stupid military hospital, when i asked about private rooms he told me "it's not often that you'd have to share a room with another woman, but it happens" and i could live with that, until he said "but we don't have any private recovery rooms. not even for c-section patients"  

i would not want to give birth in the same room as another woman!!