I feel so guilty…

I found out on Thursday I was having a boy and I cried for a day or so. I know I should be grateful that my baby is healthy. However, I really wanted a girl. I know that this sounds selfish and all. But, I do not want to risk having another baby due to my age. Besides, even if I did try again does not mean that I would end up with a girl. I’m starting to feel a little better about the situation.

Am I the only one on BG-- who has cried for not getting the gender that you hoped and prayed for? Please be nice!

Quoting Don's Loving Wife:“ I found out on Thursday I was having a boy and I cried for a day or so. I know I should be grateful that ... [snip!] ... situation. Am I the only one on BG-- who has cried for not getting the gender that you hoped and prayed for? Please be nice! ”

  wow....
ur either really hormonal or EXTREAMLY selfish.

You probably aren't! I know when I get pregnant again, I'm going to want a girl lol But not for a few years at least.

Quoting Don's Loving Wife:“ I found out on Thursday I was having a boy and I cried for a day or so. I know I should be grateful that ... [snip!] ... situation. Am I the only one on BG-- who has cried for not getting the gender that you hoped and prayed for? Please be nice! ”

Yay! A boy! Congrats. Be happy! Its your baby. Boy or girl its yours!

No i never felt that way. I had a boy my first time and i dotn know what im having yet this time. I was hoping for a girl so i can be done having kids. So when im around 30ish i "forget" about pregnancy and labor and try for a girl. But i decided that maybe i would just adopt a girl later down the road if i dont get one now. That could be an option for you.

I understand what you mean, but as long as the baby is healthy.. it doesnt matter. And I think you realize that.

I've seen a few girls like this,on here.

You can have my baby girl,she's just cutting her first tooth so she's very fussy,I am friends with a woman that is almost 40 ( online of course ) she's due with her second baby.

You are probably not the only one who has felt that way ... maybe one of a handful who would admit to feeling so. But you are entitled to feel as your hormones dictate, don't sweat it because when you look into your newborn son's eyes you will melt and fall in love all over again.

Quoting JVM:“   wow.... ur either really hormonal or EXTREAMLY selfish. ”

Shut up please,she wanted a girl I dont blame her.

Quoting JVM:“   wow.... ur either really hormonal or EXTREAMLY selfish. ”

Riiight...

I felt like that for about 2 seconds when I found out Kaden was a boy but then a second later I realized that he was the most beautiful thing that could of ever happened to me. Just love him, thats all it takes

Quoting Mrs. Conan O'Brien:“ Riiight...”

Siii

Oh and your profile says Pushing mid 30s so your not old at all to try for 1 or more children.Just thinkabout it Halle Berry is 42lol

Quoting JVM:“   wow.... ur either really hormonal or EXTREAMLY selfish. ”

Perhaps, I am just being honest and that’s one of the many reasons why I have joined BG for support. I do not feel that I am selfish ---just truthful.

I tried really hard not to cry when I found out my second was another girl I only let 1 tear fall! I was a little upset but it didnt take me but an hour to get excited about her! That is why when me and my hubby try again in 6 years! I am not going to find out the sex I knew with my first 2 and I do not want to be dissapointed if it isnt a boy I know I will be happy no matter what the day that he or she is born!