Did this happen to anyone else?

It seems like when me and my bf first got together everything seemed fine and fun.. I am 6 months pregnant right now...But up until like a month and a half ago when I moved in with him it seems like he's not as attentive like he used to be. When I lived with my father, he would call me all the time, at work, rub my feet, give me massages, etc. But now its like he barely calls and we hardly have fun anymore...It just seems boring sometimes...He's not working right now, so I know he is kinda stressed but it bothers me...Also, he didn't really want me to have the baby at first..But I was persistent that I was not having an abortion...He already has a 4 year old son and keeps saying he wasn't ready for more kids yet...What are your opinions on this?

maybe he's stopped tryin.g if you already live with him he already has you and doesnt need to work at it.
my husband use to be all lovey dovey with me and do cute stuff......but now not so much lol
maybe it could do something with the baby. i would defaqintely talk to him about it.

Quoting call me Reese:“ It seems like when me and my bf first got together everything seemed fine and fun.. I am 6 months pregnant ... [snip!] ... abortion...He already has a 4 year old son and keeps saying he wasn't ready for more kids yet...What are your opinions on this?”

If hes not ready for any more kids maybe he should STOP having sex   That would be my FIRST suggestion.

Quoting *Ellah's Momma*:“ maybe he's stopped tryin.g if you already live with him he already has you and doesnt need to work at ... [snip!] ... cute stuff......but now not so much lol maybe it could do something with the baby. i would defaqintely talk to him about it.”

Now that you mention it..I said something the other day like...You used to rub my feet and give me massages, because I'm always rubbing on him and stuff...And he's like thats when I was trying to get you and laughs...And then he'll say I'll do it later, but never does...Sometimes I think he's not that attracted to me anymore, but I know I haven't gained alot of weight too..I still get guys trying to talk to me

Move back to your Dad's. You'll probably get more attention again!  

Quoting Jackson Scott's Mommy:“ If hes not ready for any more kids maybe he should STOP having sex   That would be my FIRST suggestion.”

That's what I told him when we were in the act...I said well, if you don't want more kids..you need to wear a condom..but he didn't listen
I remind him of that all the time

Quoting Angela's gonne have FIVE:“ Move back to your Dad's. You'll probably get more attention again!  ”

I tried to act like my dad needed more help and wanted me to move back a couple of weeks ago...But he looked real sad and even started crying so I felt bad..and changed my mind....He kept saying you're trying to leave me...Let's just say I'm a wimp I guess, because the day before I was so sure I was moving back..then that happened

Thanks for all of your comments...I feel a little bit better now....

The same thing has happened with me and my husband. When we first met, we would walk miles just to see each other for a couple of minutes. Now, he constantly wants to hang out with his friends, rather than just me. He also promises massages and I rarely get them but, when I do, I make sure I get the most of them, lol. Just try talking to him, he probably feels there's no need to be romantic now that you are having a baby together, but let him know that it is important to you,he loves you sohe'll listen.

Quoting Week33-MyAzaleaJane:“ The same thing has happened with me and my husband. When we first met, we would walk miles just to see ... [snip!] ... be romantic now that you are having a baby together, but let him know that it is important to you,he loves you sohe'll listen.”

Thanks...