So last night Brett turned 22,and I planned a big surprise party for him. It was tons of fun. A couple of my friends and I left to get something to eat.We come back not even 20 minutes later,walk into my house,and Brett,three of his guy friends,and two girls were sitting around the table..with no pants on.

I was like "What the hell?!"And they all laughed and thought it was funny. I completely flipped and told them to leave. Apparently my fiance thought it was ok to play strip poker.And he knows the one girl I cannot stand was there,and she has the biggest crush on him.

He says I overreacted.Do you think I did?

nope....number one, you gave him something no one else did, which was the party so he should have had enough respect not to play such a game in your presence....it still wouldnt have been right to do so if you werent there, but in front of you was below the belt....

Quoting *Brittanie*:“ So last night Brett turned 22,and I planned a big surprise party for him. It was tons of fun. A couple ... [snip!] ... he knows the one girl I cannot stand was there,and she has the biggest crush on him. He says I overreacted.Do you think I did?”

oh hell no... i would have done the same thing and more!

I would of done more than you did!

Nope! That was disrespectful of him! (Ofcourse you ARE asking a bunch of hormonal pregnant ladies with nothing to do but plan revenge on their husbands/boyfriends/fiances/SO's for making them pregnant, lol!!!)

How completely rude and disgraceful of him. Why would he ever think that was okay when he's in a relationship!!? If it was me I'd done a hell of a lot more then just yell....

That was uncalled for, and shouldn't have been done. I'd tell him if you can't trust him to stay at home for a while without getting naked with other girls, you're going to have to leave him. What a dumbass... how would he feel if he came home and you were playing strip poker with other guys?!?!?!

Ohhh Lord.. if this happened to me, I would have caught my first charge.

I would have whooped both the girls ass's then I would have whooped his ass. That is comepletely wrong and disrespectful. I would NEVER let something like that slide. I don't even let Justins friends bring girls to my house because 99% of them are sluts and I'm not havin' it!

What was his reasoning for all this???? Because if he was just a BF or my fiance - I would have dumped his ass... seriously.

Quoting Ashley (3weekstilbaby):“ That was uncalled for, and shouldn't have been done. I'd tell him if you can't trust him to stay at home ... [snip!] ... have to leave him. What a dumbass... how would he feel if he came home and you were playing strip poker with other guys?!?!?!”

I said that. He's like "I would have been fucking pissed.Thats different.You didn't need to make them leave though.That was rude." Of course that got me on another tangent about how he does not know the meaning of the word rude. His best friend kept trying to tell me he was really wasted,and didn't know what he was doing.Uhm so not an excuse.

Quoting Mommy2B on 10/13*:“ What was his reasoning for all this???? Because if he was just a BF or my fiance - I would have dumped his ass... seriously.”

He said he was really drunk and they all just decided to play. I was gone for less than 20 minutes! As soon as I walked in the house everyone like jumped up and put their pants on. I was like "Seriously right now?"

Quoting *Brittanie*:“ He said he was really drunk and they all just decided to play. I was gone for less than 20 minutes! As ... [snip!] ... 20 minutes! As soon as I walked in the house everyone like jumped up and put their pants on. I was like "Seriously right now?"”

I've had a bad past with cheaters... I would have flipped out too.. you have every right but I wouldn't trust him again.. that's just me. Good luck hun!

Quoting *Brittanie*:“ He said he was really drunk and they all just decided to play. I was gone for less than 20 minutes! As ... [snip!] ... 20 minutes! As soon as I walked in the house everyone like jumped up and put their pants on. I was like "Seriously right now?"”

I hate that excuse "I was so drunk I didn't know it was wrong." Ugh. When people say that, I feel like screaming, well maybe you shouldn't drink then if you can't not act like an ass! You're absolutely 100% right to ask them to leave. That's disrespectful of them and discrespectful of your SO.

Quoting *Brittanie*:“ I said that. He's like "I would have been fucking pissed.Thats different.You didn't need to make them ... [snip!] ... word rude. His best friend kept trying to tell me he was really wasted,and didn't know what he was doing.Uhm so not an excuse.”

He's an ass, and needs to get kicked in the nuts IMO. He REALLY needs to re evaluate his answers...

Oh hell no. There is no excuse for that. How did the girls get there? Were they even invited? Were they there when you left? Regardless of the answers, that is fcked up.

And it's not "different" if it had been the other way around - what a double standard!