re: ATTACHMENT PARENTING !!!

Quoting tantriclemons☮ebfb:“   yeah thats why everyone was mad i think did you know she was in the USMC, graduated college and became an engineer and had a HIGH paying job by like 20”

Yeah   and they had a huge house, and her husband had an incredible job too.
I saw pics posted of her "house"... and the driveway was a mile long. That's what put up the red flag when she said her neighbors saw her breast and called the cops... when she was getting a package off the porch. Cause I was like... Really? They'd need binoculars.
The way she described it sounded like she lived in an apt. complex, and then she posted that pic... I was confused. lol

OH! and her and her twin sister were conceived at different times... because they were born at term and she was a big baby, like 9 pounds, and her sister was way underdeveloped and only 3 pounds at birth, but they are fraternal so it wasn't twin to twin transfusion...

Quoting Sharonblueyes{EBFB}:“ Yeah   and they had a huge house, and her husband had an incredible job too. I saw pics posted ... [snip!] ... her sister was way underdeveloped and only 3 pounds at birth, but they are fraternal so it wasn't twin to twin transfusion...”

really  

Quoting tantriclemons☮ebfb:“ really  ”

LOL   Ok lets forget she ever existed now. haha
Cause you can do that online.  

Meh, I still consider her a friend and don't really care. My stories on Facebook and Gaga don't match up much either (ie only you guys know we're living with my parents right now) I'm sure everyone over exassurate sometimes, she just did it on a bigger scale. If she wasn't so popular on Gaga it wouldn't even be this big of a deal. *shrugs*

Hahahaha silly Isla!

Quoting Meep:“ Meh, I still consider her a friend and don't really care. My stories on Facebook and Gaga don't match ... [snip!] ... it on a bigger scale. If she wasn't so popular on Gaga it wouldn't even be this big of a deal. *shrugs* Hahahaha silly Isla!”

Over exaggerates?? I dont think this falls under the "over exaggerating" category.  
Faking your whole life is not an accident or a misunderstanding. But whatev.  

Quoting Sharonblueyes{EBFB}:“ Over exaggerates?? I dont think this falls under the "over exaggerating" category.   Faking your whole life is not an accident or a misunderstanding. But whatev.  ”

I think as a friend she deserves a chance to explain herself. Anyone else I wouldn't give a rat's ass but meh, I feel sorry for her to feel she has to do this. I can't say I've never lied on Gaga. I state something that's true, I get attacked for it and then I end up telling a lie to defend myself. Once I tell 1 lie I end up telling others to build upon that lie and I end up digging myself in a hole I can't get out of. This was before I was pregnant with Micah though. I had a miscarriage a month before I got pregnant with him and months before that I had a pregnancy scare. I joined Gaga both times and dug myself in a hole. Since then I've learned it's easier to walk away than to try to defend myself. I didn't stick around long enough both times to make any friends and hurt anyone though, just myself.

Quoting Meep:“ I think as a friend she deserves a chance to explain herself. Anyone else I wouldn't give a rat's ass ... [snip!] ... to try to defend myself. I didn't stick around long enough both times to make any friends and hurt anyone though, just myself.”

*shrugs*
Honesty is the best policy.
I hold people to a standard on that.

Quoting Sharonblueyes{EBFB}:“ *shrugs* Honesty is the best policy. I hold people to a standard on that.”

Well honestly, I haven't told a single lie since I made this account. Everything I've said was true when I said it.

I don't reach the bar for most people, hence I don't keep friends that long. I'm actually quite surprised that Errik is still with me. I am a horrible person a lot of the time.

I've always lied... Well not on gaga though, I feel like i can just say the truth here... I don't really lie anymore, but I was a MAJOR lier in school... Idk why I always felt the need to say something better than the truth, and I stopped getting in trouble at home when I started lying, because lies were more believable than the truth most of the time..

Quoting Meep:“ Well honestly, I haven't told a single lie since I made this account. Everything I've said was true ... [snip!] ... keep friends that long. I'm actually quite surprised that Errik is still with me. I am a horrible person a lot of the time.”

LOL my relationships with people in real life are obviously more complicated than "she lied about something, so I'm not her friend" ... hell I've obviously told lies in my life.
But as far as making up fake stories about your life, and fake children and fake medical procedures and selling them to strangers on the internet, I have no sympathy or understanding for that. I dont have the time to bother with fake people. It's disrespectful to the people who think they care about you and your situation, and its disrespectful to the real life people who really are dealing with whatever you claim to be going through. And my life is complicated enough without thinking I care about situations that are completely made up.
And fankly, it makes me feel like an idiot. And it destroys my trust in humanity and other people. So I dont have any understanding for crap like that.
Like the lady a while back who pretended she was pregnant with a terminally ill baby, and make a whole blog about it... the pregnancy, the greif, the emotions, the loss... only to admit AFTER the fake baby had been born and then died, and people sent her outpourings of grief that she was never in fact pregnant, she was just a college student having some fun.
No I do not think she deserves a chance to explain herself.

Quoting Sharonblueyes{EBFB}:“ LOL my relationships with people in real life are obviously more complicated than "she lied about ... [snip!] ... in fact pregnant, she was just a college student having some fun. No I do not think she deserves a chance to explain herself.”

Yeah I don't understand it or care about people after I find out about stuff like this. I also can't get sucked into stuff either, and I find myself being much more Calais about people's situations on here.. Because you honestly never know when someone is lying. There has been one situation of a person we chatted with regularly making a bunch of stuff up, and keeping a bunch of money that was for a fund raiser, I never really liked her all that much to begin with... But It really does make you loose more and more faith in humanity


and lying about whatever stuff vs making shit out of thin are are totally different IMO

Quoting jamils_mommy:“ Yeah I don't understand it or care about people after I find out about stuff like this. I also can't ... [snip!] ... loose more and more faith in humanity and lying about whatever stuff vs making shit out of thin are are totally different IMO”

Yes. There is a difference. Exaggerating, or leaving out details, ... mehh... ok.
But making things up completely out of thin air? WTF?

Quoting Sharonblueyes{EBFB}:“ Yes. There is a difference. Exaggerating, or leaving out details, ... mehh... ok. But making things up completely out of thin air? WTF?”

I think if someone is really in a bad place, they are looking for attention, and any attention seems to work.. But I still can't understand it at all..

Quoting Just Us Girls♥EBFB:“ hey guys whats everybody up to?? I'm sooo bored lol.”

We're picking cherries so I'm pretty much off the internet for a few days.

Quoting Milo'smom:“ We're picking cherries so I'm pretty much off the internet for a few days.”

MMMmmm cherries!   I wish fruit trees grew better up here.