that vile woman.....

josh's mother has never really liked me. tho i think she minded less before i got married to her son and had her grand babies....
i have tried so hard to talk with her, and get along, i have yet to say a mean thing to her. i've kept my mouth shut and been good. she has that way of insulting you right under your nose. the insult you never see coming under that smile and seemingly happily voice. and then once you realized she just dropped a bomb on you head, it's your still trying to figure out what happened. and they are some of the most hurtful things.
we've been trying to find a house we can move into, so that our family isn't stuck in thris small apartment. but she told me the only way she would help us get a home is if we live on her land in a trailer or other mass produced home. so that plus the cost of getting it there and spectic tank, and a well drilled, rounds off being thes same as just buying a house which unlike a trailer will go up in value not down. but she won't have any of that.
grrrrrrr........ we need the help, but she'll hold it over our heads for life, act like she soooo much better than me, try and tell me how to do everything, and we will get into a fight that my girls and husband will be caught up in.
is it really worth it?

Quoting kitty la reaper:“ josh's mother has never really liked me. tho i think she minded less before i got married to her son ... [snip!] ... me how to do everything, and we will get into a fight that my girls and husband will be caught up in. is it really worth it?”

seriously all that stress isn't worth it. You will love a house of your own and will feel so much better being away from her!!!

No, it wouldnt be worth it. I am sure that you can come up with a way of doing things without her help, and her dictating the rest of your lives. I wouldnt sell my soul to the devil if I were you! lol

Quoting kitty la reaper:“ josh's mother has never really liked me. tho i think she minded less before i got married to her son ... [snip!] ... me how to do everything, and we will get into a fight that my girls and husband will be caught up in. is it really worth it?”

get your own place. my mil jokes about it but she wants us to move near her so she can take care of the baby 24/7..ughh...

I like her but she annoys me. She is too critical of EVERYTHING that I do.

I am glad we do not live in the same state as she does.