bullshit

I'm so angry right now... Miguel is soooooo not fair when it comes to our daughter.. I woke up this morning and she's not even here! I called him and asked him where is my daughter? Well she's at kiera's (my best friend/babysitters) house.. And I was like WHY?!? He's like cuz I didn't know if you had to work or not today so I took her there.. Well it has never been a problem for him before to ASK me if i DO work.. And it's just completely stupid because no one in my family really likes Jaime because he's not miguel... (And if you want to throw in those "or maybe cuz he's illegal comments go right on ahead lysw :-D ) so I can't even take MY OWN daughter to the mall if I go with jaime.. I have to ask my OWN parents for permission if I want to take ana ANYWHERE.. ITS MY FUCKING DAUGHTER. WTF. I'm so really fucking tired of this.. Miguel doesn't let me take her anyywhere either but my bestfriend/ her babysitter takes her to ALOT of random guys' house and miguel doesn't even telll her shit?? WTF.

Ok i'm confused. They dont like Jamie because he's not miguel?

Quoting TinaNRyan:“ Ok i'm confused. They dont like Jamie because he's not miguel?”

Lol yeah.. They ONLY like miguel it's their "son"

whos jamie your new BF? And does Miguel live with you or do you live with your family. Im just a little confused but either way if your not working why dont you just go get your daughter and take her with you?

Who is Jamie?

And I would tell them to knock that shit off. She is your child. You do not have to ask them permission to do shit. And as far as your friend taking her to random guys' houses I would have a talk with her & tell her not cool at all. That is not something I would want my child exposed to. And I'm sure you don't either.

Miguel lives with me and my parents. I don't have the car because he took it to work... So I'm stuck here no car, and no baby.

Quoting micah ♥:“ Who is Jamie? And I would tell them to knock that shit off. She is your child. You do not have to ... [snip!] ... with her & tell her not cool at all. That is not something I would want my child exposed to. And I'm sure you don't either.”

yeah jaime is my new bf


but he's not "that" new lol we've been going out for 6 months now. So i figure they would be use to it by now.. but heh...


And yeah it's okay for her THE BABYSITTER to take her whereever but I'm her mother and I can't do shit with her.

why does your old BF live with you when you have a new BF? to me thats strange in itsself. I guess the only thingI can tell you is talk to them and tell them how you feel. she is your kid

so who is this jamie charcter? im confused.

and if you are home.. why cant you go pick her up?

Move out- become independent (easier said than done, I know... but it can totally happen) and then they won't have a say in where you go with your baby

Quoting Ch!nga_La_Tuya :-):“ yeah jaime is my new bf but he's not "that" new lol we've been going out for 6 months now. So ... [snip!] ... heh... And yeah it's okay for her THE BABYSITTER to take her whereever but I'm her mother and I can't do shit with her.”

okay.
so you live w/ miguel and your parents.
miguel is your daughters father.
and jaimie is your new b.f.

damn thats gota be akward.


and... as long as you live w/ your parents..... you will ahve to deal w/ that.

miguel has lived with us for 4 years.. he doesn't know how to really save his money so he hasn't moved out... I can't really say much though cuz I did move out but i moved back in.....

so confused  

but id be pissed

Quoting LoveMyChubbyBubby:“ okay. so you live w/ miguel and your parents. miguel is your daughters father. and jaimie is your ... [snip!] ... your new b.f. damn thats gota be akward. and... as long as you live w/ your parents..... you will ahve to deal w/ that.”

Even if I move out I'm sure they'll still be the same way cuz when i did move ou they wouldn't let me take her with me or even let me have my car.. they gave it to miguel

Quoting Ch!nga_La_Tuya :-):“ Even if I move out I'm sure they'll still be the same way cuz when i did move ou they wouldn't let me take her with me or even let me have my car.. they gave it to miguel”

you can take her wherever you want
thats YOUR child